i'm a girl. we've been classmates for a just a year in highschool. he's very nice. he's cute and a gentleman. 3 years ago he and his family moved to Australia to live there. from then on, i can't get him out of my mind. sometimes i'll find myself writing his name beside mine. even in the books that i read, i often find one character as if it's him. in the streets i often mistake people who resembles him. i keep his pic on my wallet and can't bear to have it lost. i make poems easily if about him, if not, i can't. we write and text ocassionally and whenever i receive one i feel like im the happiest person in the world. of all our friends and classmates, only i have the connection with him. now i'm in college. after graduating, i feel like i want to study or work in Australia so I can be closer to him. Can you tell me what am I feeling?
2006-06-20 17:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by ayin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's easy to feel loss when a friend moves away or when you feel like you've missed an opportunity... ask yourself this- does he feel the same desperation to contact you or see you, and if not evalute how intelligent it would be to set your future around somebody who is not willing to do the same for you. And if thats not the case and he feels like he needs you as much as you feel like you need him, it's quite possibly the begins of love... isn't it great.... feel him out, ask questions of him about his feelings and how he feels about you coming to australia to work after graduating.
2006-06-20 18:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by simply 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be easier for you to romanticize about a relationship that you already know can only go so far. Knowing this, you have room to make it this perfect, awesome thing in your mind.
Having said that, you are in contact with him somewhat and it does, by your own account, energize you. That is always a healthy sign of a positive, supportive relationship, and is not always prevelant in people's lives.
However, moving to Australia just to be close to this person is probably not in your best interest, unless your communication now grows to a point where you mutually agree that you'd both like to explore how far this relationship can take you. Until that happens (IF that happens), just cherish what you have.
2006-06-21 01:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
What you are feeling is a natural reaction to meeting or finding someone that you connect with. Sure, the is a great thing concern your thoughts and feelings but to have a true connection you need to verify his feelings towards you. If they are mutual then you have something very special. There is not alot of people that you will meet that you'll find that type of connection. It is like locating a diamond in a pale of dirt. Good Luck
2006-06-21 01:14:40 · answer #3 · answered by greg2lint 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre in fantasy land. But that can be good if he feels the same. However, moving over there could put a lot of responsibility on him, so that might kill the romance.
2006-06-21 01:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL.... dont you think its obvious you love the guy right so why dont you talk about it to him because its about what you both want not just what you want and if he loves you go for it if he doesnt get over it theres other fish in the sea
2006-06-21 01:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
INFORM YOUR PARENTS AND MAKE THEM TO MOVE THIS MATTER AND GET HIM MARRIED WITH YOU. THAT WOULD BE THE BEST.SINCE YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIM. KEEP IT UP .GOOD LUCK
2006-06-21 01:00:30 · answer #6 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur in love gurl.. go for it.. hope tat he's havin d same feelin to u..
2006-06-21 00:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is what you call LOVE! hope it works out for you.
2006-06-21 01:00:36 · answer #8 · answered by fairyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋