Cause we had some problems, I sent an email to my boy f about my decision for our relation ( friendship or couple) and ask for his decision. But I haven't got reply from him for 01 week. I want to ask YOU
what is he thinking? Note: his business is becoming very bad, but I only recently know it.
what should I do? Note: i don't wanna call him
2006-06-20 17:51:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you must call him...he is busy worrying about his business, you are worrying about the relastionship so you must be the one to try to hold it together. Best wishes
2006-06-20 17:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's very busy dealing with his business & is probably pretty stressed out. A call from you might be the very thing he needs (your concern & encouragement). He may need more time to come to a final conclusion about the relationship decison. Meanwhile, being there for him & showing him that you care may help him come to a conclusion sooner... call him. You may even find the answer waiting.. on the other end of the phone.
2006-06-21 01:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice you did not say what you had decided. But since you don't want to call him I assume its friendship? I'd just let it lie, if he is not calling you to try to get you to change your mind probably friendship is not in the cards either.
OR If he is under a ton of stress right now he just might not be dealing with it. I'd let it lie then to tho. You don't want to heap more stress on him right now.
2006-06-21 00:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by MercyMillennium 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are YOU thinking???
From your questions, I'd say you're obsessed with this guy.
Leave him alone so that he can manage his business. Once his business becomes successful, perhaps he'll have time to email
and/or call you.
P - A - T- I - E - N - C - E is the key here!
2006-06-21 01:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should support him until his business is ok but if u dont want to then dont expect an answer soon he is sure very busy in his business u know to guys business comes first then friends then women but to women always guys comes first so either u wait and try to tell him that u understand or u can just live ur life and tell him u waited for an answer and didnt rcv any...
2006-06-21 00:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by ghadoud2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'll tell you from my own exp. Pick up the phone and call him. It's better to face your problems then avioding them. Trust me it works. Don't be scared to call grow some hair on your as.
2006-06-21 01:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cesar T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes waiting for you to call....or maybe he didn't get your email. Or maybe its his work that hes all caught up in and really doesn't have time to talk with you about how he feels
2006-06-21 00:58:19 · answer #7 · answered by Monique G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do if you don't want to call him? nothing. wait for him to respond...if he does. maybe he has decided that he doesn't want to bother with the relationship anymore. only he knows what he is thinking. no one but him can help you with that one.
2006-06-21 00:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by hun bun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is your friend, you should call him , sometimes moral support what people needs.
2006-06-21 00:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hasnt got it yet!! never know its possible just email him again
2006-06-21 00:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by brilliant blonde babe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋