I just got into a relationship with a member from yahoo and i really like him and we have alot in common and hes really nice and sweet but we live in 2 different states and could possibly never meet each other and i dont know if this is right please tell me what you think i should do? HELP!(no rude remarks please im seriuos but if you feel you have the right go right ahead)
2006-06-20 17:46:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Have faith, and be careful. If it's destiny it will work out. You seem so into him, give the relationship a chance.
2006-06-20 18:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by La_Belle_LadyR99 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got into a relationship with a guy who lived 10hrs by driving away from me, and of course I was very scared of meeting him... what if he was some kind of perv or sex offender or something.... well we ended up just talking for 6 months but we fell head over heals in love with each other sight unseen. We both made sacrifices so that we could be together and now live in my home town, though not forever. We are married and have a little boy baby on the way. My answer evalute how much you really like him and if you can see a future (marriage and the sort) together, and ask yourself if there is a meeting point in sacrifice that the two of you can make so that you don't feel like your doing all the work to find a way to be together.
2006-06-21 00:58:04 · answer #2 · answered by simply 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest with your too, this is just too crazy. Long distance love will never last. Hope you do remember that online and reality are two difference things. Everyone can be perfect online but when it come to reality, that's totally negative. Which mean, even if you two hav a lot of things in commons 'online' that doesn't mean anything. So, Find someone you can have it physically and emotionally. :-\ "Say is easy but do is hard"
2006-06-21 01:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know someone who is happily married to her husband whom she met online. they lived in different states also. i have to say tho that he's is a great guy and it's been 2 years now that they've been married.
she didn't commit to being in a relationship with him until she met him. so maybe you should have tried that first.
you guys definitely need to see a pic of each other and try to meet somehow. altho meet with a bunch of people and not alone. use those webcam stuff.
hopefully no underage type of thing is involved in this. if you are underage than forget about online dating because it's too dangerous.
2006-06-21 00:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be very careful. The person you met and fell in love with online, may not be the person he is in real life. Don't decide if it is right until you meet him. And to be safe, make sure you meet him in a public place, with at least on of your friends.
2006-06-21 00:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by MountainChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still becomes friends even bf&gf it doesn't even matter even if you are in a different state you don't know if you people are meant to be together.
2006-06-21 00:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its kind of crazy to be honest with you... find someone you can physically touch.
2006-06-21 00:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by payshent957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋