the others- not saying that you dont love all your children but do you feel something more or like
resent one of your kids?- come on be honest no one will think you are a bad parent
2006-06-20 17:27:31 · 8 answers · asked by sexysnowboarder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I use to be that way,I have 3 boys and 3 girls two of the girls are twins and even though the babies were twins it seem to everyone that I showed favoritism.if u were to see them you wouldn't think they were twins one has jet black straight hair and brown skin and the other short light skinned with knotty hair they say I favor the light skin one.when she cry I pick her up going off because I think someone hit her and the other twin when she cry I'll just kiss her boo boo don't get me wrong I love all my kids but she so little than the rest that's my baby.but I need to treat them equal or they might turn on her.
2006-06-20 18:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by yoyoluv27910 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love each child more than your own life, but each child has their own special gifts. Being a parent means nurturing and fostering each individual personality. You don't like or love any of them less or more. You have to approach raising each child differently sometimes when they start finding their own personalities, their own talents, their own preferences, etc.
A parent has to be able to see each child in their own spotlight, doing whatever each particular and specific child was born to do. That process takes years. But loving one more than the other is never a question.
If ANY parent says they resent one of their own children over the other, the parent should have someone else take the children for a while until the parent can get some therapy.
2006-06-20 17:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one element i'd do is take your son to a medical specialist and get him examined for upload/ADHD. the way that he reacted to no longer having the flexibility to get the sweet should not be tolerated in any respect. You stated that he stated you do not love him, i'd say perchance the actual undeniable truth that you're a unmarried figure and also you paintings 8-5, that perchance your son would not sense very close to to you. i understand how not straight forward that's and not using a male ascertain in his existence yet proper this second your son needs you. attempt having those nights that a father would have. Fishing, tenting, little football video games, popcorn/action picture nights, and little interest nights with monopoly,sorry,etc. Being a unmarried mom you commonly could address that male position and be the most appropriate mom/father you ought to probable be. Have better administration over your sons reactions. you could also invite perchance your dad ( his grandfather ) over to spend time with him so he ought to atleast sense there's a male position in his existence who will spend the time with him somewhat than a dad who wont. let your father and son spend some high quality time at the same time as your no longer round. reliable success
2016-10-14 08:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I resent all of them---ALL 5--- Just kidding, I love all of them
2006-06-20 17:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I love all my Cabbage Patch Kids equally.
2006-06-20 17:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do my best to treat them equal. I have seen favoritism first hand and it causes a lot of problems.
2006-06-20 17:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love all of my children the same. i do find it harder to get along with one of them, but i still love him the same.
2006-06-20 17:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by lisa p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD LOVE YOUR CHILDREN AS INDIVIDUALS-
ONE IS PERHAPS MORE LIKE YOU AND YOU ARE CLOSER TOO-
BUT EACH HAS HIS/HER OWN SPECIAL PERSONALITIES...
2006-06-20 17:30:53 · answer #8 · answered by fscape444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋