My ex dumped me I was a mess 10 years we conqured all things they say can not he is going away for 6 month i am upset ting seemed better to me. I get a call after a udge fight saying he is done walks out the door does not go home goes to a friends lies wont tell me - 5 days now i gave into my emotions of fighting and argueing he wrote me a letter talking about our future e dint want tis i ask him on his sparing phone calls he says hes done this is why i fight i be calm he oller ooo i couldnt win so I wrote him a long leter after 10 years not being mean not begging not being harsh telling him he is right but it is even. I do as much as he takes and gives. If i am that bad i said icant be with you i cant treat someone so cold told him home on and ahead and live his life i will do the same! And i was peacful not hurtful dont wont revenge after all he is staying some plcae does not think in i know so its not another women...
I think the letter just killed us and now i regret what i did
2006-06-20 16:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet_little s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No he is with his friend - my leter explained the resntment on my part was over. I knew were e was I was chasing or following Him I am not a child we do have children. lol He had not phoned since my leter but the reality if i treated someone so bad i cant keep them arounf just hurting them i do not need his money i have wealth i do not need his acusations blaming me i do not want his life but we beat a lot of odds, I need to get past him not give him time i just regret being a child and aving to revert to a letter. WE both love each other but I wonder and believe its done I cant kep fixing someting broken
2006-06-20 19:03:26 · update #1
Your relationship was already dead. Get a divorce and move on. Your relationship was destroying both of you, and you're better off apart.
2006-06-20 17:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go back to school and get an education, after that a good job. You don't think he is staying with another woman? He is doing something. Maybe another man? Let him go, think about yourself. Don't regret your actions, be mad at him for being so thoughtless and uncaring. Grow up and be happy with who you are. Cause he be boinking someone , I guarantee it.
2006-06-20 17:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by mysticmamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit groveling, hold your head high and move on. Anyone that moves on so quickly has wanted out for some time. Don't apologize for the way you feel!
2006-06-20 17:03:06 · answer #3 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY? If he said it was over then it is. If he did not come home then it is over..they call it breaking up cause its broken...its abook check it out. It helped me alot.
2006-06-20 17:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by soulmate_n_nc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN.
BE BRIEF.
AND LIVE HAPPILY EVER AFTER.
2006-06-20 17:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋