the love of your life is now your best friend and has a girlfriend , and forgot about you and doesnt seem to be in love with you anymore and it hurts??????????????
2006-06-20 16:46:39 · 10 answers · asked by boca_baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he doesn't know, tell him. If he doesn't react, then back off. I don't think you will be able to stay "friends" as long as one of you has romantic feelings. Tell him you do, you have nothing to lose.
2006-07-01 10:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He still loves you, but is no longer "in love" with you as he has found another relationship. New relationships take time to nurture and blossom into something even more wonderful than the initial attraction to one another. When things settle in with his new relationship he'll probably get in touch with you to catch up.
Think back to when you two just fell in love. Did you spend most of your time together alone without contacting old friends to chat as usual? Love allows for tunnel vision so that one may concentrate on the other to further the relationship past the initial dating period.
In time he'll come around and realize that he has been in neglect of your friendship. In the meantime, why don't you get in touch with your friends whom you haven't seen in a while. Go out on the town and hang with the gang. Life does go on even though at this time it may not seem like it. It takes time to enter into a relationship and it will take time to get over a relationship. How you choose to deal with it is up to you. Don't allow yourself to pine over him as he is no longer with you and has moved on. You have to simply accept that fact. The faster you find closure the sooner these feelings you're having will go away. Emotions can cloud ones judgement. With that being said, try to step outside of yourself and imagine that this is happening to your friend. What would you say to her to help ease the pain. What is your advice in this matter. Sometimes you have to step outside of yourself in order to see the big picture more clearly. I hope that you find this useful to you in your endeavor to find closure. After all, the end is simply just a new beginning. Good luck and Godspeed!
2006-06-21 04:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Stress to hard about it. Let him live it up trying to talk to him about it at this point may push him away. Concentrate on you for a while and who knows he may not be the love of your life after all.
2006-06-21 00:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by rioladymorris1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a best friend you should be happy for him, and just make sure he is happy with his gf. Sometimes it sux it has to be this way. But you'll get yours someday too don't worry.
2006-06-21 01:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jon Skywalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You concentrate on making yourself into the best "you" you can be. Not only will it make you more attractive to men who like what you've become, it will make your ex jealous as hell! Living well really is the best revenge. :D
2006-06-20 23:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best friend still love you because you are still friends.
2006-06-20 23:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for them, get on with it, and most of all forgive him for his shortcomings. If he loves you truly he'll be back, but don't waste time pining over him........The hurt will get better, I promise.....Find somebody new and go on with your life........
2006-06-20 23:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for him and move on remember "love Hurts"
2006-06-20 23:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by kimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another best friend.
2006-06-20 23:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and move on,,,you will find another..... maybe even better !!!!!! good luck.....
2006-06-20 23:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋