Our relationship is over and it was so much more than sex. Lately though I have been very horny thinking of her. This happens daily, sometimes more than once a day. My heart is broken and I hate this.
Any help??
2006-06-20 16:35:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love her still tell her. She might feel the same way. you never know until you check. Good Luck. Romance her in a way that she wouldn't expect.
2006-06-20 16:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by joann jensen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your break up. Without knowing more about why your broke up, it is difficult for me to assess the situation. Sometimes it takes time to heal things that were wrong in a relationship. I came back to mine after a three month split and I just could not stop talking to him and vice versa. We realized it was better to go through the motions of ups and downs then to be without each other.
Sometimes, though, it is better to leave the past in the past. Another ex and I long ago tried to make it work. After two weeks, I realized I made a mistake and it was over. We have hated each other since. He happens to be the father of my daughter, which is unfortunate, but I am happy to say he treats my daughter well.
It really depends on what is right for you. If you think the break up was for a reason, then please know the broken heart you feel will get better with time. It may take a long time. It took me three years to want to date again after the break up with my daughters father. But when I was ready, I found what I was looking for... True Love.
It will be okay, don't give up on others and know that there are others out there who have a wild side in the bedroom. She is not the only one, and most likely they will also have some of the other qualities you liked about her and hopefully not the baggage you two had.
Good Luck!
2006-06-20 23:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by Doodlebug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that you care for her.
Guys think about sex all day long, and this must have been a recent thing. You probilbly just want her more now because you can't have her.
You need to find someone or give someone a chance that you know has feelings for you. Once you find out that someone else also can give you attention, you'll be fine. (If you're ready to move on).
This isn't uncommon, I wish the best for you though, your broken heart and your swollen.....
2006-06-20 23:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over an ex and your body gets use to the closeness and the sex. Stay away if the relationship went sour it will only cause more hurt in the end.
2006-06-20 23:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by TinyToon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time... It's hard to give up both emotional and physical attraction for someone. But, you need to move on. Look for someone else, but don't let your feeling for your ex influence the relationship at all or it's destined for disaster.
Anyway, good luck in dealing with this heart break.
2006-06-20 23:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by Rasha S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just horny that I disagree with you and would say that your relationship was based on sex. Now if you would have said that you were lonely, lost and miserable. Possibly felt like crying because you felt like you life ended then I would believe you. But either way I would say NEXT....
2006-06-20 23:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very normal. There's no point agonizing over it. If the relationship is over, it's over. Focus your attention on becoming a better person and you'll eventually find someone who likes who you've become.
2006-06-20 23:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds...for now, you need to just go through the emotions, but you will feel better in time. It is normal, to still feel for her, especially, is she was the one who called it quits. Just try to keep your chin up, and think about your bright future. This too shall pass. Best of luck to you, hon.
2006-06-20 23:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's part of life .. so we can not skip this kind of devostation that causes pain ... but with it comes maturity , so try to have fun ( my suggestion let your self a little bit free, but dont get extremly wild) do something that you like and keep yourself busy.. that dosn't mean you will forget its hard to, but its a step ... in 2 years you ll see it as memory and be glad you learned another lesson.. Live your life , you only live once...!
2006-06-20 23:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by boca_baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to solve any problem is to talk to someone. Trying talking about getting back together. If she says no, then it's no, and move on.
2006-06-20 23:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by sphere_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋