2006-06-20 16:33:37 · 29 answers · asked by Marie W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
It's a good idea to practice safe sex first. I was reading a question on an abortion by a 15 year-old just earlier. You certainly don't want to be stuck in that situation, if you happen to be young.
First times tends to come with some moderate pain from what I hear. I do suggest that most girls having sex for the first time get lubrication and apply generously. Check the condoms to see if you are allowed to use baby oil. The baby oil would shorten the time of initial discomfort.
Have fun...
2006-06-20 16:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tristan K 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
To the best of my knowledge there is always a little pain for the girls, the first time. Maybe more, for some. If you are a virgin, then the male penis ruptures the hymen on its way inside your vagina. And some force from your male partner is required to rupture your hymen, which may cause some pain and bleeding. If your hymen is already ruptured for some reason, you wouldn't feel any pain if you are accustomed to inserting things similar in size to a penis inside your vagina, e.g. a dildo, for self gratification. But if you have, in any case, inserted smaller things than a normal male penis, then the first time will be a little painful too. Anyway, the trick is to have a lot of foreplay and produce a lot of lubrication inside your vagina before actual penile insertion. This will ease the way for the male penis inside your vagina. In any case, you need to have sex 3 to 4 times before you are fully comfortable with it.
2006-06-20 16:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a couple of things:
1. If the girl is comfortable.
2. Depends on the size of the guys "thing"
3. Depends if the girl is "wet" (Coz if she's not, it would definetely hurt!)
2006-06-20 16:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can hurt if you're not wet enough.
It's not so much that it hurts but that it feels kinda weird--unusual. Something you're not accustomed to.
P.S. In case you don't know, you may bleed. If your hymen (a thing that protects your insides) hasn't already been broken by a tampon, riding a bike, etc., him entering will most likely break it, and you'll bleed. But you won't bleed if it's already been broken.
2006-06-20 16:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will depend on how comfortable you are. If you are relaxed, confident that you have made the right choice to do it, and feel completely trusting of your partner then it should be alright. But if you are pressured or unsure, it's probably your body's way of saying to wait.
2006-06-20 16:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by rufus_rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard from a friend that it hurts the first time, but she said the harder the better.
2006-06-20 16:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every girl is different for some it hurts really really bad but for others it was just uncomfortable....my first time hurt but as you go along it will get better....remember though condoms play a very big part so please be smart and wrap his willy lol good luck
2006-06-20 16:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll probably be so nervous because you think it will and when it happens you won't know he's actually penetrated. (Hopefully you are of age).Use protection!!!! Be very sure it's with someone you really care about and who really cares about you!!!! Not just a one night stand. And TAKE YOUR TIME> DON"T RUSH IT>
2006-06-20 17:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some girls it hurts a lot and for others don't, it depends on your complexion.
2006-06-20 16:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Caicita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT DOES! but just at first, and before three or four times you start finding out why it's sooo good. so start practicing haha
2006-06-20 17:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by anna karenina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋