how should we tell them?

Question

me and my boyfreind want to wait first to see if im pregnant but we both think i am because alot of sperm came out of him at once during sex so we are going to tell his mom and my mom that im pregnant if i am how should we tell them because it will be really hard because where kind young and i know i made a mistake so i dont want to hear any rude comments and when should i get tested if we had sex yeaterday and is there any time when i can get pregnant and cant ?

Answer 1

It is unlikely that you will get pregant while on your period or a couple days before or after this (not definite though!). The time you will most likeyl get pregnant is when you are ovulating. This is about half way inbetween your periods.

I would suggest not telling them until you have had a pregnancy test at a doctor's office or health clinic because you could just be adding unneccessary stress to yourself and your loved ones.

Answer 2

the only time you absolutely can not get pregnant is when you are not having sex. the last part of your questions makes me wonder if you will learn anything from this "scare" because you are asking for a time when you can't get pregnant.
You say you don't want to hear rude comments, but honey, what do you think people are going to be saying if you are 15 and unwed and pregnant? You need to hear something that is going to make an impression on you. You should be talking to your parents about this and not a bunch of strangers.
if you plan to continue this behaviour, and it sounds like you do; you should at least use a condom and practice safe sex.

Answer 3

First of all if you had sex y-day you can get a morning after pill to prevent pregnancy, that will stop it within 72 hours of having sex, 2nd of all you cant test till your at least two weeks into it, third of all make sure your pregnant and tell your parents as soon as possible, trust me dont make the mistake I did, I waited forever and it just ended up hurting more, not to mention all the stress thats put on your body from keeping that in hurts the baby, and really there is no great way to tell them just suck it up and take it and remember that they will move on, especially once they see the baby. There's no being mad about that.

Answer 4

Ok, just because allot of sperm came out DOES NOT MEAN you are pregnant. Please, do NOT tell your parents yet. You would have to wait to see if you missed a period yet. That could mean, one week, or one month. If you get your period, your in the clear, if not, then buy a pregnancy test. There is no time when you cannot get pregnant. I mean, technically, you have to be ovulating, meaning the week before your period. But it's more like a guideline, and not a rule. This mean, you really can get pregnant ANYTIME, during your period, or not... NOTHING but a condom or birth control can prevent this... and then sometimes they dont'. The amount of sperm that came out, is no indication that you are pregnant. If you have any other questions, visit my page at www.myspace.com/yourpinkheart and message me there....

Answer 5

You poor thing. Most women ovulate in the middle of their cycle. If you are regular, say 28 day cycle, you should have ovulated 8 to 14 days after the first day of your last period. usually youre only fertile for 36 hours a month. If it happened yesterday, wait about two weeks and take a home pregnancy test. First response is the earliest testable one that Ive found. You can test up to 5 days before you miss your period. I wouldnt tell anyone until you find out for sure. Good luck hun, I hope everything turns out well for you.

Answer 6

TO PLAY IT SAFE I WOULD WAIT TO SEE IF U ARE FIRST. YOU DONT WANT TO TURN THINGS UPSIDE DOWN IF THERE AINT ANYTHING TO WORRY ABOUT FIRST. U MAY BE JUMPING THE GUN IN A BIG WAY. BUT BY CHANCE U R JUST BE TRUTHFUL WITH YA'LLS PARENTS. THEY WILL BE SHOCKED AND MAD AT FIRST BUT IT WILL ALL PASS IN TIME. GO BUY A TEST OR GO TO YOUR LOCAL CLINIC. THEY ARE ALL ABOUT YOUR PRIVACY SO THAT WOULD BE A GOOD THING. BUT START USING PROTECTION IF YOUR YOUNG U DONT WANT A BABY. YOU STILL HAVE A LONG TIME BEFORE THAT ROAD NEEDS TO COME TO PLAY. ENJOY LIFE NOW. THINGS WILL CHANCE WHEN A BABY IS IN THE PICTURE. BABIES ARE A GOOD THING ONCE YOU ARE MARRIED AND SETTLED. HAVE FUN BEING A TEENAGER. HOPE ALL IS WELL AND EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST. TAKE CARE AND BE CAREFUL IN THE FUTURE.

Answer 7

You can get pregnant anytime you have unprotected sex on your period or not. You should be more careful, and if you are pregnant there are many options for young parents to consider

Good Luck

Answer 8

i would tell them straight up, sit them down and be like mom im pregnant...its scary and hard but in the end it works...you should make sure you are before you tell them...im currently 6 months pregnant and i didnt even have to tell my mom, she knew cause i was eating foods i hated, like pickles with bbq sauce...i did however have to tell my father...and it was scary but in the end he was helpful! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 9

sweetheart sit down with your mom and tell her, it will save you both a lot of pain. ask her to get you on birth control.if you dont think she will you can go to your local health department and they can help u without your parents knowing. but for your own good talk to your mom and ask her all the qustions you need to.

Answer 10

i would wait to see if i were pregnant before telling my mom if i were you. wait two week and go take an EPT