I have a friend that told me she’s falling in loves with me and she wanted to be more then friend… I care about her but I’m just not in loves. I don’t want us to be nothing more than just friend. I don’t want to hurt her feeling but I also don’t want to lose her as a friend. Some of my friends suggest that I should just stop talking to her, stop hanging out with her, or avoid her phone call but that would be really mean. She a really nice person and I can talk to her about anything but I just don’t like her in a b/f and g/f situation. I don’t like her in that way. I already told her that we can’t be nothing more than just friend but she still kept trying to hook up with me. What should I do, break-up the friendship?
2006-06-20 15:12:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ceon 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sit her down and tell her that there will never be a chance of her and you together. If you're not honest with her, then you're leading her on and giving her false hope. That's not fair to you, but it's definitely not fair to her. She'll be upset about it, but she will heal in time. Now the part about being friends, if she still tries to hook up with you, then stop talking to her. She's not a real friend anyway if she can't follow this one simple wish. Hope this helps.
2006-06-20 15:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by hpotter4ever2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even the best of friends let us down one time or another - no one is perfect. She did something that hurt you, she apologized and said it was not intentional and you said you understood. Well, you evidently do not understand. If you truly did, this wouldn't be bothering you so much. If you indeed understand, put it behind you. Why lose a best friend after one misunderstanding? Life is too short to hang on to things like this. Yes, you are very hurt - you need to let go. If you harbor this grudge, your friendship will never be the same. The ball is in your court! Take it and hold on to it (the grudge) or get rid of the ball (put this incident behind you) - it is all up to you. I hope this helps. Good luck. Best friends are difficult to come by!
2016-05-20 07:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up the friendship, thats dumb. Why lose a good friend over something easily solved? Just sit her down and talk to her seriously one on one. Let her know exactly how you feel, tell her that you don't mean to hurt her but you just dont see her that way and you would love it if you could remain friends. Really good friends but nothing more. Be sensitive but firm. Good luck.
2006-06-20 15:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Explain to her you would like very much for you both to remain just friends. You feel you are too young for a serious relationship currently.. You should, if you feel it necessary, to stop hanging around together.
She may think you are leading her on. Let her know her friendship would mean a lot but that ia all you want currently.
2006-06-20 15:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let her down without hurting her..
Be honest and let her know how you feel. Say that you love her as a friend, but you're not willing to commit to anything else.. and most of all that you don't want to lose that relationship.
If she's as nice as you say she is, hopefully she'll understand. xx
2006-06-20 15:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just have to end the relationship,if she does not get it.But if you go that way,be tactful and let her know once again how you feel.Some time a part may do some good.
2006-06-20 15:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by soxx381 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you just don't like her in that way, but you still want to be friends. If she still tries to hook up with you, tell her you need space. That will clear her senses.
2006-06-20 15:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. If yall are that good of friends then sit down and be honest.
2006-06-20 15:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bridget D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say u like hangin out with her but u just dont want a relationship wit her
2006-06-20 15:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋