I have contact everyday with my wife, though we are separated. We are separated because I caught her having an affair, and had her leave immediately. We went to counseling for awhile, but we do not go anymore. When we are together, it usually is great. But she keeps saying that she likes living alone, and she is happy with how things are, which is we see each other once or twice a week. Meanwhile, I am sick and tired of trying too hard, I am sick and tired of waking up alone, but I love her tremendously. Any suggestions?
2006-06-20 15:02:50 · 10 answers · asked by johnlawdog232003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Listen ! Wisdom is talking. Get a divorce and move on with your life. She admitted she was happy living alone "how things are". A tiger never changes their stripes. The heartache will hurt but the outcome will bring joy. Be strong and of good courage. Best Wishes! ;) Remember, how tired and sick you feel. You sound like a very sincere man, only good things are in the horizon for you.
2006-06-20 15:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start dating. It's really hard when you love someone more than they love you. Try putting a little space between the two of you. You might also try going to counseling just for yourself if you're open to it. Keep your chin up and you'll see the right one when they come along instead of the sidewalk!
2006-06-20 15:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would say you need to for get about her and move on with your life. Trust me if she doesn't want you there more than once a week then she has another man to keep her busy. She is just leading you on and keeping you on standby . Save your heart from any more pain. Get out now . Life is to short not to be happy. You deserve some one that wants to be with you and loves you. trust me there are many single women out there looking for a good man to love and be happy
2006-06-20 15:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by jaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I hate to say this but a marriage only works if both parties want it to and as painful as it is she doesn't seem to want it to. If she is happy being single let her be and find someone who will make you happy as well. No one on this earth who will make you cry is worth your tears...
2006-06-20 15:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by Linda K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie~ get a divorce. She wants her cake, and to eat it too.
you're there when no one else is. Find someone that wants a man in their life. Leave her alone.
2006-06-20 23:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by john's brat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that she just wants you when she needs you..dont put up with that..your worth more than that.I know its hard but little by little try to move on with your life.
2006-06-20 19:28:05 · answer #6 · answered by chat girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwww.
She feels trapped by all that love of yours. She can finally breath. She didn't cheat because she didn't respect marriage, she cheated to get rid of you. You need to take a hint and get to dating and getting over her.
2006-06-20 15:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife are "one flesh." Please, go to the web site for Rejoice Ministries. They can guide you. Don't give up 5 minutes before the Miracle! GOD will bless you.
2006-06-20 15:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by woman of faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, it sounds like u care about her alot. with her personality and what she did, she is lucky 2 have someone care about her as much as u do. it is her loss , not yours
2006-06-20 15:06:35 · answer #9 · answered by :))) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what she likes is the freedom to have sex with anybody she damn well pleases, cut your loss cause you are worth more than that
2006-06-20 15:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋