I had a short relationship with a guy, after a while we broke up, A year later we ended up being friends again,,,his life is changed completely, he is always abroad for business and i dont see him much. Im not sure if his got a girl friend or not! I still like him alot and want to be with him again but i cant be open with him about my feelings. I think he knows that i like him from my reactions but he doesnt seem to make the first move in anyway, as if something is holding him down.
Im 24 and he is 38, the age gap is quite big. Im not sure if i should really bother with him? just confused and dont know if he likes me, I like him alot and cant forget him,..What shall i do?? Is he worth it?
2006-06-20 14:57:55 · 5 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The age gap isn't that big - you are both grown adults and thats what matters. If he is a busy guy who is intelligent, then you should just act like an adult and tell him how you feel and that you enjoy his company. Don't play games - you both are adults, not in high school anymore.
He can be worth it if you both feel the same way about eachother - but only time will tell that. Talk to him and see what he thinks - the worst thing he'll say is that he can't have a relationship or that he doesn't feel that way, but at least you won't have the regret later about "what if" you would have asked him.
Also, you said he acts as if something is holding him down - is he married? Does he have kids/ex-wife? Make sure he isn't married and if he is leave him alone and move on.
2006-06-20 15:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as if it would be hard for him to maintain a relationship being abroad so much. He may sense you want more of a relationship than he does. I'd say just have a good time when he's around, but don't look to him for a serious relationship. That is if you could handle that, if not move on.
2006-06-20 15:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cara Beth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could waste alot of time thinking and wondering about this guy. his age and mystery are probably attractive to you and the reality might be a big disappointment. this is an infatuation that you should pas on for now. look for someone your own age for now. if this guy is for you it will happen. are you sure you could cope with him being away alot anyway?
2006-06-20 19:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be into you if he's intouch constantly. Take the move, just try ur luck and all the best.
2006-06-20 21:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey if you know for a fact that he loves you then you should make the first move but only if you know!
2006-06-20 15:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by *stars* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋