I think that I'm bisexual but im not 100% sure, I'm only 13. The reason i think this is because the idea of kissing and/or touching a girl is just as appealing to me as kissing/touching a boy. I don't want to tell anybody untill im 100% sure. I'm also afraid that my (girl and boy) friends will think of me differently if they know about me. Their not against gays/lesbians/bi's (atleast i don't think) but im still worried. Can some1 pleaze tell me, or guess on whether im bi or not!?
2006-06-20 14:52:49 · 18 answers · asked by Poison 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel that way, then you are. Your the only one who can determine your sexuality dude. If your friends really love you, then they will accept the person who you are.
2006-06-20 14:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Oddon 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You might just be curious. Just b/c you are thinking about it, doesn't mean you will actually like being with a girl. I felt the same way as a teen. I liked men and women equally. I dated a few women too. So, I am bi, i like looking at women now, but I'm married to a man (yes he knows this, and is very comfortable with it). So, even if you are bi, it doesn't mean you are or will be a lesbian. All that takes time, just think about your feelings and maybe later you can find someone to explore with. So then you will know.
Yes, at your age, you friends will treat you differently-but you shouldnt care. Just be true to your self...Wait a while to find out more about yourself..try not to label YOU!
2006-06-20 15:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by MandyHawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like touching/kissing boy's as much as doing the same to girl's you might be bi. Or you may be going through a stage; but if you like doing it more power too you; i don't see nothing wronged if they don't like it well it might be time too move on but you don't have too tell think if you think it's going too mess up your friend ship. if you don't want to be bi try to test your hormone's and see were that lead you. just don't do nothing out of controlling. PS: do what you think will make you feel happy in life.
2006-06-20 15:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your bi. Its really up to you whether your bi or not. If you feel that way about girls then you should try not to worry what others think. Dont let them determine what you do or do not like. I was like that when I was 13 and I didnt find out I was bi until like the age of 16. Then I admitted it to all of my friends. They are all ok with it. If you have friends that are really FRIENDS then they wont care about that. Those are true friends if they dont care. I hope I helped some... Good luck hun... *ASHLEY* Please choose me as best answer?!
2006-06-20 14:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpeaches_6915 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're trying to find a difinitive label for yourself too quickly. Maybe you are, maybe you're not. It may be a brief moment in your life with these feelings, or it may last longer. You need neither fear it or embrace it at the age of 13, but just give things more time. I don't think I'd talk to friends about it just yet...unless you have a very close trusted friend perhaps...because you may not really have enough knowledge about the feelings yourself, and it may be premature to make public announcements, even if such announcements are in the form of casual, low key talks with favorite listeners in your life.
2006-06-20 14:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are entirely too young to have this concern. At this point it is useless to label yourself as ANYTHING. This is your time to learn who you are, experiment -within reason- and form goals for your future. Don't worry about this, keep it to yourself and put it on the back burner for a while. Your self image will be a revolving door for the next 10 years. Just have fun and be patient.
2006-06-20 14:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by dreamstorm1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ur bi and man that is awsome be proud. im bi to and i lost a friend over it. if you do tell ppl be ready for all girls to think you have some secret crush onthem and you may make them a little uncomforitable. but hell, being bi is awsome. what can i say. by the way girls kiss better. in my opinion. i have never met a i guy before........hmmmm.... yup. i love being bi. dont let ppl put you down tell them to kiss ur *ss
xoxo
me
2006-06-20 14:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are bi courious. You really can't say your bi untill you try something with another girl. I don't see why your friends will think of you diffrently. You need to lission to your heart. When the time is right thats when you will know. Your young enjoy life take things slow.Good luck.
2006-06-20 15:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI YOUR VERY YOUNG AND PROBABLY FEELING YOUR SEXUALITY AND HAVE BEEN EXPERIMENTING A LITTLE DOING DIFFERENT THINGS,HAVE YOU KISSED OR TOUCHED A BOY YET? YOU SHOULD TAKE YOUR TIME BUT YOU MIGHT WANT TO FIND ANOTHER GIRL YOUR AGE THAT DOESN'T KNOW YOUR CIRCLE OF FRIENDS AND MAYBE IF YOU FEEL SOMETHING YOU COULD TRY KISSING OR MAYBE MORE TO SEE HOW YOU FEEL!!!!BE VERY CAREFULL AT YOUR YOUNG AGE,YOU DON'T WANT TO GET A REPUTATION AT YOUR AGE AND HAVE IT FOLLOW YOU THROUGH YOUR HIGH SCHOOL YEARS!!! I HOPE THIS HELPS YOU SOME!!!
2006-06-20 15:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by tallnslim22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose, you can easily be pushed in to a life style and to do something you shouldn't.
You're one or the other not both, at 13 you shouldn't be thinking of experimenting with it anyway. Even then stick to boys.
2006-06-20 14:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That answer comes from deep inside yourself. Being curious, and turned on toward the same sex, doesnt mean that you are bi-sexual. That is normal at your age, and sometimes its normal at mine also. You will know for sure as time goes on.
2006-06-20 14:56:21 · answer #11 · answered by Elly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋