i want to get back with my ex we been knowin each other for three years and went out for four months one minute he acts like he wants me back the next minute i'm confused when we're around each other we cuddle and kiss and stuff but he never calls me i have to call him and when i do he always tells me he'll call me back or call him back and i don't know how to tell him how i feel becuz i am shy and this is the first time i let my heart get into a relationship we talked and told him that he acts care free and he said he cares he juss doesn't show it so i told him he needed to start becuz i would feel better about the situation and he said for what so far i'm juss like any other girl so give him a good reason y am any different from any other girl can u help me figure out what to do or say or somethin becuz i dream about him at least 3 times a week and it has me in tears becuz i don't feel like he wants me the way i want him so help me please to maybe get a conversation started
2006-06-20 14:40:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, you need to find someone who feels the same about you. Obviously he doesn't care for you because if he did he wouldn't say you are just like any other girl. Good luck. Find someone else to care about and who will care about you.
2006-06-20 14:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
This relationship is in your life to teach you what your really looking for in a guy. He's not as affectionate as you are cause hes a stupid guy who doesnt know himself yet and struggles with his emotional intelligence perception. In the end you will come out on top since you are the more giving and sincere person. Try to break your dependance by remembering how good it was to be single, single life wasnt so bad before was it? Hope this could helpl, cheer you up, take care.
2006-06-20 14:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is terrible, I'm sorry to hear you're suffering. Sit him down tell him statements like, "When you don't call me back my feelings get hurt." If that doesn't work play hard to get not desperate. Guys LOVE a challenge. I have a friend that's been doing this to her for 4 years, it doesn't change usually. If he doesn't respond well to your attempts in the next two months. Stop calling, start dating. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't deserve it! Be confident in yourself!!!!
2006-06-20 14:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know just what you have to do.... I am sorry to say that he has NO RESPECT for YOU... if you are just like any other girl to him, he is saying you are NOT special enough for him to go the next step, and that is to care about you... I think you need to stop and read the signs.... go on with your life and let him move on to the next NOT SO special girl .... you deserve better and more... God bless
2006-06-20 14:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as you might love him its time to let go and i know its hard trust me but he is just using you dam its feels like we are going thru the same thing here. but if you really like him and you still haven't hit rock bottom then let me tell you get involved in his favorite things thats the best thing i can advice you!!! or try to find out that whats bothering him
2006-06-20 14:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by *stars* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur situation sounds like the same one i was in.... EXACTLY!!!! things only got worse cuz he wasnt showin affection, i bitched a bout it.. he said hes not good at showin it.. he left me when i was 5 months preg.. girl get away from him. there are other guys.. each day gets better and better with out him..
2006-06-20 14:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so nervous of heart broken over him, find a new guy that's like him, but has nicer manners, like he calls back, he can always get together with him, that king of thing......
2006-06-20 14:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than that, let him go, he's playing games w/ your emotions. Sometimes love can hurt, go find someone, who cares for you as you care for them
2006-06-20 14:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by taykay211 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, girl run!!! and don't look back
2006-06-20 14:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋