How can to tell her?

Question

0ho how can you tell your girl friend that you love ever so much for other things that she is NO good in bed ? or even open the subject with her?

ok have fun but i need to know plz

Answer 1

maybe instead of telling her straight out you could do interesting things. suggest things while doing them like... honey instead of doing____ try it like this, or it turns me on if you do ____. Anyone can be taught how to be better in bed, you can play games on letting her getting to know what makes you hot, and you can learn the same about her. Make it look natural not like you've planned a speech to her it might hurt her feelings. Believe me if you love her its worth a shot.

Answer 2

well, part of a great relationship is communication.

I would advise against telling her that she is NO good in bed. It doesn't solve the problem, and it just makes her self conscious. You didn't say why she is lacking in this department.

Why don't you suggest some fun things while you are getting into the mood? Have you ever thought that she may find you NO good in bed too? Ask her what she likes to have done to her, keep in mind that you want to make her happy, not force what you want to have done.

Overall, talk! I can't believe you are intimate, but you can't even chat about what you both like in bed!

Answer 3

I wouldn't tell her. There are ways to improve the sex in your relationship without just telling her she is bad. Suggest some new positions, share some fantasies and ask her to do the same. You can tell her how much you like a certain type of sexual act (like oral sex, etc) and encourage her to do those things with you. Also, make sure she is satisfied as well. Ask if there is something you're not doing that she would like. It's possible that she isn't good because she isn't enjoying it. Either way, it should be a fun way to spice things up and improve the situation without anyone feeling bad.

Answer 4

If the relationship is good between you two then you should be able to tell her in the most gentlest way possible what you both desire from each other sexually. May want to break the ice by asking what pleases her and then when she is done it will be your turn to tell her what pleases you. Oldest trick in the book, but it still works. Good luck!

Answer 5

Communication, communication, communication. I still don't understand how people have relationships and they don't talk to each other about everything. You must sit down with her and be honest with her. If she cares about you, and you about her, you will approach her with tenderness and tell her what you enjoy and would like to enjoy with her. Having great sex doesn't just "come" to people - it's practice and reading, and experimenting. Do this together. Read books together. Stroke her hand, touch her cheeks, kiss her face, but let her know in gentle ways what pleases you. You might be surprised that she might have some things she'd like to say too.

Answer 6

Don't tell her she is no good in bed. Try new things and keep practicing and encouraging her until she is good. Watch a lot of porn together. Maybe she'll pick up a few tricks.

Answer 7

if you are having sex you two should be totally comforatable with each other anyways and there shouldnt really be any awkwardness...just be like babe sorry you have so many good attributes like...(then list some)...but you are just not that good in bed. then try alternatives or maybe even go to a sex counselor. good luck

Answer 8

Buy her a subscription of Cosmopolitan magazine. Maybe that'll help. There's a lot of stuff about 'being better in bed' and stuff like that. Or just tell her what you like.

Answer 9

If you really love her, you wouldnt care so much about that...
And if your soo worried about it, tell her without actaully coming out and saying it bluntly. Hm... show her what to do in the process of doing it. That might work

Answer 10

Ok so don't tell her that part just show or tell her what you would like and hopefully she will get the hint. But don't do it in a criticizing way.