Why is it that when a couple 1st get together they have sex all the time but over the yrs it slows down?

Question

my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 yrs and when we first started having sex we had sex all the time, many times a day, but over the years we have sort of cooled down. we still have sex ,maybe 3 to four times a week, but im worried that it will cool down even more. i know that when couples are together long they have more things to do than have sex, but i miss the old days. what do you think , is this normal.

Answer 1

that happens, but you know i wouldnt complain about 3-4 a week, try having your partner not want to share anything with you except maybe every 2 months, either her menopause keeps her from it or........... she really hates me. consider yourself lucky that your other half still shares emotion with you.

Answer 2

u find out another couple and share ur experience . speak ur husband about having sex with them. The same problem we r also having . Now we usually having sex. Twice in a month our friends will come & sleep together. That is a wonderful experience. U just immagine u both can enjoy a lot. Then u can watch sex pictures and automatically ur intention will increase. Otherwise try some medicine. Good luck!!!!

Answer 3

The sex dies down in all relationships if the people involved let it.

After a while it becomes a routine; something you've become accustomed to over time.

Try to change things up, positions, where its done, etc. This should bring back the excitement you first felt.

Answer 4

Because you've done every position imaginable and the "newness" has worn off.

Answer 5

It's called 'take her for granted' tell him what would he do if you got hit by a bus? Good luck Sweety!

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