my b/f doesnt trust me and there is no reason to what should i do.?

Question

I wanna go out to eat with my best friend ,who is a guy, because he is moving away in august and i wont beable to see him untill summer of 08. But my boyfriend doesnt trust him what should i do?

Answer 1

He's bound to feel that way, most guys wouldn't want anyother guy come within 10 feet of their girlfriend, I guess if it is possible, you can get him to come with you. However, you should try to build trust in your relationship so he won't have to follow you everywhere you're going, all under the guise of not trusting the other guy.

Answer 2

well unfortunately there are many things that could be going on inside your boyfriends head first of all if you have done things in the past to make him think that you would do something with this guy then he has legitamate reasons for concern take it from someone who has been there and had that done to them a couple of times, trust is a major issue in a relationship and it can fall apart if it isnt regained but it has to be earned back. but most of all if there is no reason what so ever that you man has to worry abotu you need to express to him hey look you know who this guys is and tell him where you are going to be and about how long you are going ot be out and i wouldnt make it be a long time and if anything i would invite your man along, because sometimes not always but sometiems if you and another guy friend go somewhere one on one it can lead to something even if you dont mean for it to. that would be what i would do,

Answer 3

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Answer 4

What has trust got to do with it? Put yourself in his shoes for a few minutes. Suppose he told you that he wanted to go out with his best friend- a female. Would you be comfortable? One male was so sharp, he had best friends give out wedding invitations. It was not until the Maid of Honour- the best friend- read the invitation that she realized a triangle existed. Everybody is not like that person. Your boyfriend is alert and knows what happens because he is a male.It is called burning the candle at both ends.Your present boyfriend is supposed to be your best friend now.Think this one through.

Answer 5

Well if your boyfriend is having a problem with trusting you and you have not done anything for him not to trust you then maybe you should be the one asking the questions. The guilty dog always barks and I can here some howling right now! Take a hint!

Answer 6

if your boyfriend can't trust you, he can go take it up the ***. I've been through overprotective relationships before. You should talk to him about it, see if there's a reason he's insecure about your relationship. Explain to him that you won't see your BEST FRIEND in two years and he should be able to understand you want to spend some friendly last minute moments with him.

Answer 7

I'd talk to your b/f a remind him that this boy is just ur friend and u wont be able to see him for a long time...Not only that but your b/f should always trust u....a realationship is based on trust

Answer 8

Ask your boyfriend to go with you guys. It's the only way. I hope this isn't an ex boyfriend of yours, this friend that's a boy... That could be why he has a problem with it. But really, take a look at the other side of this. Would you get mad if he wanted to go to dinner with his friend that's a girl... ALONE? Ask yourself that question, please. And be real, and then understand why he'd be upset. You have to be fair. If you love your boyfriend, you'd respect him more and he'd respect you.

Answer 9

if he cant trust you with your guy friends, then he obviously has some trust issues of his own and you need to tell him that if he can't handle you having guy friends, then he should get out of your life because you can do much better

Answer 10

Just make him come along and prove that you are trustable. haha if you don't want to do that, and your boy friend doesn't trust you break up with him, trust is the most important thing =]