we've been having sex for two years, no BC, i'm allergic to condoms and he doesnt pull out....i'm 20 hes 23, and i still have not become pregnant...is it pretty likely we cant have kids?
2006-06-20 13:53:21 · 9 answers · asked by workn2live22 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
yes we are engaged..we were getting married this summer but had alot of medical problems and are putting it off till we have more money
2006-06-20 14:03:19 · update #1
we dont do drugs, we are hard working people,
2006-06-20 14:04:05 · update #2
I'm having the same problem as you are - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 29. We've been trying for around 2 years as well. I went to a doctor about it and after some ultrasounds, etc. I found out that even though I ovulate normally, the eggs never become mature enough to be fertilized. I was told that was fertility drugs, I'll probably be able to conceive. You could have something similar. Have you ever been tested for endometriosis? Infertility can be a sign as well as severe pain and heavy flow during your periods. Although not all people have the same symptoms. When you are financially able, I'd go see a doctor about your problem to find out whats going on.
2006-06-20 14:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might get pregnant any day. Do you want that? Are you ready for it? If not, get some BC right away. To answer your question more directly, yes it could be you can't have kids, at least temporarily. At your ages, eople get pregnant easy. Maybe there's some medical thing going on. Or maybe you guys drink, smoke pots, do other drugs. It affects fertility. So does anorexia, or him working out two or more hours a day. Check all these things out.
2006-06-20 14:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is really for 2 years regular intercourse and you have been ovulating periodically, you both should consult doctor separately or together. Of course please tell him and you also understand that making some one pregnant is not the only sign of male ego nor only reason to be in love. There are many better things to do together- man and woman! I am sure problem will be sorted out after consultation fault may be in any one of you. Any time including within 24 hours of ovulation, the probability of successful conception is never unity (1) or it is not a certainty. If it is not a certainty once it is not a certainty doing it any number of time mathematically.
2016-05-20 06:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you guys have a healthy relationship to start off. But if you feel insecure then maybe each if you should get a check up to make sure everything is running right.
2006-06-20 14:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there could be a fertility problem. See your doctor. My sister's friend had her daughter unplanned, when they tried for another baby it took a year, they had a boy a few weeks ago. Fertility is a strange thing.
2006-06-20 13:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you insane? Why don't you get married first? I hope your relationship is commited enough for a lifetime.
2006-06-20 13:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had sex with my husband for a year before i got pregnant it'll happen when its supposed to happen
2006-06-20 13:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by mommy of 2.5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have kids but first of have yourselves checked by any obgyn and a simple sperm analysis will determine the problem.believe me been there.
2006-06-20 14:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a dog?
2006-06-20 13:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋