2006-06-20 13:42:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He should take full responsibility for the pregnancy and the resultant birth. You should tell him to get lost as he obviously cannot be trusted.
2006-06-20 13:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by smgray99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Was this K Fed. Listen, carry your dignity out the door with you. You have nothing to say to him. Really! Is there an answer that will satisfy you. You don't need to second guess your decision because he needs to be with his kid and needs to take on his responsibility. That is no way for you start a relationship - with mis trust at the base. You will never trust him again, not with this kid always there to remind you what a lie your relationship is. So cut your losses (cuz u loved him) and leave.
2006-06-21 07:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by moved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I would ask him to explain himself to why he did the thing that he done. Then tell him how you feel and no holds bar on how you feel. Then I would say it was fun while it lasted and then leave him. Because once a cheater always a cheater i believe. But good luck to you. I agree with all the other answers....he needs to be a man and stop playing games and step up to HIS responsibility. It is out of your hands what's done is done.
2006-06-20 21:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him for cheating on me. And I would say prayers that he enrolled in some parenting classes and got a job so he can pay child support. I would wish him and the other girl love and success for the sake of the unborn child. But, I would definitely leave him. You don't need someone else's baby's daddy at your side!
2006-06-20 20:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by answer gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been in that situation. mines was worse. i was 3 months pregnant and i found out she was like 2 months pregnant. so i was hurt. but i left him and it was the best thing ive done. we was together for 4 years. so please dont fall into the trap and give him another chance because it WILL happen again. Hope this helps.
2006-06-20 20:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did when I found out that my husband was cheating on me and left me for her. Get a seam-ripper (available at your local Walmart) and take out all the seams in his pants and shirts. Rip up all of his sock and underwear and then send them to him by his momma.
2006-06-20 20:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him immediately.
Go to the doctors and get tested for STDs.
If he was with this girl behind your back, there could have been many others that he was with too. Stick up for yourself!
2006-06-22 09:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Fancy You 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he obviously must take responsibility for this child now and you need to separate yourself from him till you know what is stable in your mind because I wouldn't think twice about asking a question like this one in Yahoo!answers
2006-06-20 20:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by proud of it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO....anybody home in there????? Apparently, he's not just YOUR boyfriend. Tell him BYE and have a great life with the mother and his baby.
2006-06-20 20:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would get mad and try to find out why he did it then try to fix the problem if u love him! i cheated on my husband 3 times we are still married! its love that keeps us togeather yeah we all make mistakes and you learn from them.. thats how you learn in life!! when you are a baby you learn to walk and you fall you get back up and try agin!! so if you really love him i would try to make it work.. if not then leave him!
2006-06-20 21:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Heather H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋