I found some things in my house that doesn't belong to me when I came home from the hospital. He knew for sure I wasn't going to be home under those circumstances. I didn't tell him. He is very secretive about his email and the other day he checked it from my computer and I realized he has other accounts. I want to be sure he hasn't made plans behind my back and find out after the fact. I can't change him, but I can prepare ahead if I know what's going on. Asking him about it is out of the question.
2006-06-20 13:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Seems like he's cheating, all right. First, you're not the first, won't be the last this has happened to. Second, be sure that if you search, you'll find. There are programs out there that override passwords in PCs, or you can try logging it his mail account and press forgot password and make a new one, but he'll find out you've been snooping around. It enrages me to think that a husband can cheat on a wife while she was in the hospital, and i have a feeling he won't accept it if you confront him, so go see a lawyer and get advice, fast! Some lawyers don't charge for the first consultation, but you can learn a lot there. Best of wishes.
2006-06-20 13:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by AMBER D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would be to talk to him about it and see what he says - but since you say thats out of the question you are kinda in a spot where you can't do too much.
If he has other email addresses he is probably smart enough to use web based email so you won't find out - and there are TONS of free email sites. You can purchase "spyware" that you install on the computer and it will track what sites he visits and even records key strokes so you will know his passwords/information. You can do an internet search and find tons of programs for sale that do this.
2006-06-20 13:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy i can tell you, he's up to something. If he's hiding email addresses and passwords from you, he has reasons for doing it and none of them are good for you. If he hasn't cheated yet, he's plotting to. Be extra watchful.
2006-06-21 08:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at the history on the computer itsatthe top of the page on the bar or try lookingat his cell phone bill and text messages and his incoming and outgoing calls they always use the phone and get a copy of your home phone bill outgoing and incoming calls and ucan alwaysgo to the spystore they have devices for the computer to see whats going on
2006-06-20 13:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would come home from work early one night just say you dont feel good and leave work early look for different color hairs in your bed if you are finding other womens clothing i would confront him with it holding a frying pan!! goodluck!! i wouldnt put up with it i would kick his but to the curb!!!!
2006-06-20 20:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother, if he's cheating now he'll continue to cheat even after you find out this information. sit back and watch him, he'll foul up and then leave. it's really not worth the headache.
2006-06-20 14:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by silly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yuo should ask him for an e-amil address and than when it says forgoot password click it and than walla there you are as simply as that but you gotta tell him that you want to e-mail him something !
becareful
2006-06-20 13:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for downloadable spy ware. He'll never know it's there and and it will record EVERYTHING and send it to your e-mail. It's easily done. Good luck!
2006-06-20 13:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is obvious that you don't trust you husband. why not trust him and love him and let God take care of the rest?
http://www.biblebelievers.com/SimpleSalvation.html
2006-06-20 14:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
click on history and check his delated mail you can use tools to backup this to .///
2006-06-20 19:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋