why boy friend don't let me wear tight white pants though i really like it, why is he like that?

Question

he says he does not want all men to look at my butt, and come near me in clubs, is he right?

Answer 1

Well I understand what he saying, but also I am pretty sure you were dressed like that when you met him. So now that he has you, he doesn't want anyone else looking for you. You have to decide what more important...looking sexy or having someone that loves you and wants you to keep that only for him.

Answer 2

He probably doesn't want you showing what you have under those tight pants, and that is what a woman in tight pants, especially white pants, seems to be doing - if they are tight enough to show what kind of panties, if any, you have on or leave nothing to the imagination - and in the right light they are just about see through. No guy really wants the one he loves doing that, unless he really does not care and just wants the other guys to see what he has on his arm. I think that is great that he is not into 'eye candy' on the arm. Be happy that he loves you that much! It is rare nowadays. Why don't you talk with him calmly about why you want to wear them, and ask him to tell you his reasons for not wanting you to, it may open your eyes to what is in his mind when he says he does not like them. Also, you need to talk to him about that not letting you do things - not a good sign, but if you mean he asks you not to, then I would respect that.

Answer 3

He is probably very insecure about other men watching you. I know that when I date an extremely beautiful girl, it sometimes gets uncomfortable when every guy galks as we walk.

I'm not insecure about it, but I do feel a little protective at times. I went to club with an incredibly gorgeous girl and every time I had to walk away, 10 guys tried to take my place. It kind of got old and a pain after a while. You probably get those looks when you wear tight white pants.

Answer 4

I am a little concerned that you have a boyfriend that wont let you do something. Sounds like he is a little controlling and possessive. I want you to know that you have a right to wear what you want when you want to. I feel that your style should express who you are and how you feel. Right now its the tight white pants, tomorrow it could be what friends and family members you talk to, where you go and what you do, how you style your hair, how much make-up you should wear, what time to go to bed and what you are going to eat. It starts out small and gets bigger as time goes by. I would put him in his place. If he respects you then he will agree to let you be who you want to be and will encourage your happiness. If he doesn't respect what you want then I would find a different boyfriend. Good Luck!

Answer 5

i paraphrase Dr. Drew from the Love line when i say that guys are more visual in their thought processes. Certain clothing girls might think are harmless, the guy might see something totally different. Not because you look bad in them. It's because what you're wearing can make him be thinking of anything. Mostly because you look TOO good in them, and he sees something he'd rather not think of you as. Get what i'm saying? It's..sweet but it gets complicated to wear what you really feel like wearing, because he's seeing red when they're nothing but white pants. Understand where he's coming from ok?

Answer 6

If you want to wear tight pants, you can wear them. It's a free country and i'm assuming you're an adult. Either quit whining or get a new boyfriend or both. This was the dumbest excuse of intelligent conversation.

And what the f*ck does this sh*t have to do with dining out??

Answer 7

He doesn't want other men staring at you, which they would if you wear them. It's your body, though, so wear what you want! Just don't flirt with other men when you're wearing them.

By the way, wearing really tight pants can lead to infections, so you might want to ease up on that.

Answer 8

Girl he, he simply doesn't want you to wear sexy clothes, that probably you might look great right? I simply encouarge you not to listen to yoyur boyfrind, ignore what he says! If you keep listening to what he says, then he will take control over you! don't let that happen. Dress however you want to dress, live life and don't let him take over you or else many things will happen. Then you'll regret listening to him! Take the lead and be in charge, be in charge and express what oyu feel to him, if he doesn't like it then leave him! don't cry for someone that doesn't understand your needs!

Answer 9

Your boyfriend won't LET you? I hate when women say things like that. You are in control of the decisions in your life, not him. The fact that he is trying to tell you what you can and can't wear is a major red flag. You need to drop him and get on with YOUR life. Because that's what it is, yours.

Answer 10

one thing about white pants. they're pretty much see-thru. if U want to show off your Red Panties, then wear red pants. your boyfriend probably just doesn't want everyone else looking at his girlfriends private undergarments. also, he feels panties & G-strings like that were probably meant to be reserved for him only.

anotherr thing about tight pants, they really hug up on your curves. & your boyfriend probably just doesn't want other strange perverted boys to be all leering & staring & gawking at his girlfriend's physical & sexual assets.

i know i know. the tight white pants make you feel a certain way. that's kool. if i were yours i'd let you wear them, if that's what you're really into.

Answer 11

You LET him boss you around and tell you what you can and cannot wear? He is not your father and youre not a child under his rule. He's insecure, that's it in a nutshell! Wear what you want to wear, if he doesnt like it, TOO BAD! Stand up to him, dont take it, if you do, you deserve whatever you get.