plz help me to understand that ??? my husband was on me about my weight ok so i gained 30 pounds through out the years ..why is he gonna cheat on me with a girl bigger then me ? it just dont make ne sense ? and the other girl was another nasty *** skank .. she was smaller then me but she had been with everyone ? why why why ???
2006-06-20 13:23:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I was out of town both times he cheated ??
2006-06-20 13:37:49 · update #1
First I would like to say don't pay any attention to the idoits that say it is your fault. Second I would say don't believe that all men cheat I have been married for 12 years and I have never cheated. If this is what your "man" is made of then maybe it is time to let him go. Find a real man who won't go around cheating on you. There is no excuse.
2006-06-20 13:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Stop generalizing = not all men cheat, those who do don't "always cheat with nasty dirty hoes".
2. The reason it could have happened in your case could be your husband knew he could score without much trouble.
3. The reason I cheated after an 8 year engagement was my fiance started considering me distracting to her pursuit of higher education, so I wanted a little attention.
2006-06-20 20:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ask me it is a crime of opportunity. The more opportunity there is the more likely it could happen. I think the average honest man or woman would need two things. Motive and opportunity. Whether the motive is real or not remorse won't set in until the deed is done. Then there is just your typical dumba$$
who doesn't care because he/she has lost respect for their mate and figures they are desperate and will stay with them no matter what.
2006-06-20 20:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by lackny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one thing you should consider is that your man is not getting from you everything he'd like to.
The other thing to think know about is, making sex with somebody is not as emmotional for guys/men as for girls/women. So when your man cheats on you, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you or he is not confortable with you. Most propably he loves you very much. I know thing, if I don't like/love a girl I'll leave/dump her, but never cheat.... Just talk to him and suggest some better girls to sleap with :) (this one was joke...hope you got it)...
Good luck
2006-06-20 20:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Vladimir Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well may be u dont accomplish his sexlife... like u wont do anal , or u wont give him ******* if he asks u ...
Besides that the buissiness of night clubs will go down ...;)
ask him and try to be the horniest person for her ;)
he'll not spend money on the whores no more..
aye
wish u good luck;)
2006-06-20 20:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by â? MÎ?Я©ỮÅ?Â¥ â?¢ â? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good question
but why men goes to the other woman ?
its only for fun. u may ask cant he get it from home?
yes but its a fact that evrybody goes after what they dont have.
dont u cheat if get a chance to ?
tell me frankly if u want..
u can write to me
udayy2@yahoo.co.in
2006-06-21 02:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by udayy2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably made him feel like a man. men like to be sweet talked to or talked dirty too. or maybe she would do things you wouldn't there are a lot of reasons other then she is a hoe
2006-06-20 20:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by elman411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me.... WOMEN DO IT TOO!!!
I came home from a business trip to japan and found my EX-wife- Byotch in bed with another guy.
SO DON"T GO AROUND PUTTING THIS ON MEN!!!
oh, and have a nice day.
tom
2006-06-20 20:27:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most people have issues and usually take it out on the people closest to them. Or because some guys are just man-whores.I would never cheat on any chick.Its not my style.
2006-06-20 20:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats when you know its good, when they screw a nasty skank, cause those hos will go to new lows.it sounds like he cant be faithful, dump his as* and find a real man.
2006-06-20 20:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋