Ok My husband lives in Georgia and I am in Virginia we have a 3 year old and I am 4 months pregnant. He has givin his cell phone number out to everygirl he can think of and he is still calling girls here in Virginia. He asked me for a divorce and I agreed because he wants nothing to do with his unborn child. He told me to have an abortion or give it up when I had it and he would stay with me or to move to Georgia so he could have our 3 year old. I am really scared because he keeps sending me emails saying he is going to post naked pics of me on the web and that he is going to take my daughter if I don't do curtain things for him. What should I do? He also told me today that he wasn't going to sign the papers for a divorce because he doesnt want me with anyone else can someone please help me:(
2006-06-20 13:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need a orderof protection go to the courthouse explain your situation and they should give u one ask them how can u go about getting permanant custody of your child you and give him visitation rightds only threw the courts u have to do this all by the courts record every phone convo withhim save and print all emails he sends u let him go this isnta good situation to put yourself or your child and unborn child in ask thecan uget a divorce without he signing u should be able too also let someone close to u know whats going on in case of an emergency a friend or family member that doesnt talk to him keep 911 on speed dial good luck and do what i said everything
2006-06-20 13:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as your legs will carry you. Move in with your parents if possible so that you have the security of having them around so they can also keep an eye on your daughter so your ex won't have the opportunity to take her. I think you can get a divorce without his signature. Goodluck with your new life.
2006-06-20 20:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he's doing is called emotional blackmail. Keep the copies of the e-mails where he threatens to post pics of you and so on, that is harassment and blackmail (both of which are against the law). I would also seek a restraining order against him. I wish you luck.
2006-06-20 20:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek both legal advice and personal counseling. That is a lot to deal with.
2006-06-20 20:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by My Answer For What Its Worth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save EVERY e-mail. Print them out and put them in a lock box or safety deposit box. You will need them one day.
2006-06-20 20:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by dreamstorm1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call child and family services they can advise you.
2006-06-20 21:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋