that they felt the same for you...that there was a mutual attraction ? Then later you are told by them that you must have misunderstood their friendliness for something more ? Have you ever been so sure that someone liked you too and found yourself feeling like a fool and like you imagined the whole thing ? Is it just plain vanity or arrogance to assume someone likes you...I mean we have to have some self-confidence out there in the world...
If you have, please share your experiences with me so I'll not feel like the only fool out there in the world. Thanks
2006-06-20 13:22:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you are not the only one. I have had the exact same thing happen and I felt foolish too. You get over it and move on but that doesn't make the hurt go away now. Just know that you did nothing wrong it was just a missunderstanding and if he really is a nice guy he will understand that and not hold it against you. If he does hold it against you well then he wasn't so wonderful after all.
2006-06-20 13:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ethan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has happened to me, but it's not vanity or arrogance. Maybe he did like you, but just as friends, or maybe he's not very good with committment in general; or maybe there was someone better out there for you. As William Shakespeare said, "A fool thinks he is wise, and a wise man knows himself a fool." (meaning, we all learn from experience.)
2006-06-20 13:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow ur good at writing. N im sorry i dont think i ever felt that way.
2006-06-20 13:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no what it is is the ppl giving off the wrong vibes, or just denying it. but its bc they are just flirty
2006-06-20 13:32:04 · answer #4 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really are a fool
2006-06-20 13:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no not really
2006-06-20 13:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋