2006-06-20 13:18:41 · 16 answers · asked by dayna_2369 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Please read _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. It was written by an expert in the field, and it will give you lots of information on how to increase your chances of getting pregnant.
Good luck!!
2006-06-20 23:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-14 08:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I had the same problem. I did research on the net and found a wonderful site. www. fertilityfriend.com . It gives wonderful tips on how to maximize your chances and you can put in your info and the site will put together a graph for you that will help you figure out when you are most fertile. I used the site along with ovulation tests(which the site also help me to figure out when to take them) and I am now 30 weeks pregnant with our son. After a few months, if nothing has happened still, talk to your doctor and see if they can run some tests to make sure everything is ok. Good luck!
2006-06-20 14:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by itsjustmejdp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dayna, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-06-20 14:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While being on the same boat, my advice to you is: go see a fertility specilaist - RE (reproductive endocronogist) don't waste time just waiting for it to happen. It doesn't hurt to see a doctor even if it means finding out that everything is ok.
Please! rather than going to an ob/gyn, and finding out that he's just experimenting on you, go to a fertility specialist right away.
I hope you'll get pregnant soon.
2006-06-20 17:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by a b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your marriage is stable and you 2 are DEFINITLY ready for this! Eat healthy exercise regularly and see your doc regularly. If you want to speed things up consider a fertility monitor. Otherwise let nature take its course. If you are unable after trying for a over a year then see your doc and get tested.
2006-06-20 13:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been really trying for a year, see a gynecologist or fertility specialist to see what's up. Sometimes it just takes a while. Sometimes there is a fixable problem.
Good luck!
2006-06-20 13:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Pangolin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is how I got pregnant. Right after your next period start having sex every other day. Since sperm lives in you for 72 hours and if you have sex every other day then when you ovulate you will have sperm still in you.
I got pregnant the 1st time I tried this.
2006-06-20 14:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by devlprincess04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus on it! It took 5 years for our third child to come. God always has a better plan.
2006-06-20 13:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a little word of encouragment...
I know someone who was trying for nearly eight years, and his wife just got pregnant. It may not happen when you want it to, but that doesn't mean it will never happen.
2006-06-20 13:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋