He's done this twice. My husband has been talking a lot with my sister since she came to visit with us. They obviously have a great time talking to each other. I am concerned however, because on father's day, around 11:45pm, he went walking with her on the beach without me. We had just had a wonderful evening, and I told him that I was too tired to go walking, I am four months pregnant with twins, and it's been a little complicated. He assured me that he was not going, and for me not to worry. Later on that night, he decided to go with my sister and my daughter down to the pool to see if the tiki bar was still open. That is when he must have decided to go walking down to the beach with her. He did not even tell me when he got back to the suite, I just had the feeling I should ask. Then and only then, is when I found out. Along with him calling me her name, and telling me he wished she could live with us, and telling me that all of this is petty stuff, What would you do?
2006-06-20 12:55:43 · 23 answers · asked by candy0813 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like your husband is getting too personal with your sister. And if he's like this with her, there are most likely others out there you don't even know about. You're pregnant with his twins, but some guys find that to be a turn off and look elsewhere for their satisfaction. Your sister reminds him of everything he loved about you before you got pregnant, and it looks like he's looking for opportunities to act on it.
2006-06-20 13:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by David 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow, that hurt even my feeling to read that, i can only imagine what it must feel like. my first impression, im sorry, is that he is having an affair, or want's too. i really hope that is not the case. let's see, my advice would be to start doing some detective work. start by asking harder questions, in detail to both your husband and your sister. if no answers are found in that, i think this calls for being a bit more sneaky, after all, you do have kids on the way, and it wouldn't benefit them to bring them into a life of lies.
2006-06-20 20:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a sticky situation. But I would not doubt my gut feeling. If you do not feel good about whats going on, then you should say something. Not necessarily go off the deep end, but just let your husband know how you feel. It would bother me if my husband kept talking about my sister. Definitely do not invite her to move in. Not that something would happen, but it would make you uncomfortable every time they were together with you not there to supervise. You may be making a mountain out of a mole hill,(which I don't think you are) but at least he knows how it makes you feel, and he will stop talking about her.
2006-06-20 20:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by lavendergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't u just hate when men act like "dogs?" I would confront him..with everything..don't hold back..after all this is your marriage you're talking about...Sister or no sister...it could just be your husband with the "HOT-DOG" ideas...is Ur sis single? In any case...don't let this get by you...stay on top of it ..and question Ur husbands movements...I would...and definitely not put up with any nonsense from either one
2006-06-20 20:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by celine8388 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously has feeling for her. The nerve of him to spend a romantic evening with her while your pregant with twins! If my man went walking on the beach with any female he was not related to I think I'd kick him out.
2006-06-20 20:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really sorry to hear about that, I am sure you are wondering so many things. I want you to know that you are not alone, and that many other women have gone through the same thing. I believe he will get out of it, but if not you should talk to him. Maybe it was just a mistake.
2006-06-20 20:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not right in this situation..
I would make sure she is not getting any further into your husbands head than she already is..
It almost sounds as if he is obsessing over her, you need to find out the reason why he is and make your next decision/move from there..
2006-06-20 20:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT LET HER LIVE WITH YOU. You don't need things to get any worse. She might be clueless abt all this, but you could talk to her separately abt how you feel weird abt her spending time alone with your husband. And tell your husband it's making you nervous. And get her out of the house. !!
2006-06-20 19:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl come out and talk to him. You do not need to be stressed out especially when you are four months along with twins.
2006-06-20 20:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by bubblesgalore222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't second guess someone Else's thoughts. Haven't you ever called a family member the wrong name.
My mother goes down the list before she gets my name right.
2006-06-20 19:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋