The four of us are have mutual friends, so we all know eachother. My boyfriend is currently locked up and I have a 9 month old and my "friend" and his ex-girlfriend have a 4 month old. She recently stabbed him and he is trying to end the relationship and actually for the most part has but she wants him back. Meantime my "friend" and I have gotten really close and we are begining to have real feelings for eachother. I just don't want to feel like I have to be his secret and him my secret. I want to be able to go places together without worrying if some of our mutual friends are going to see us together. There have been some things said about the two of us, but right now we're still denying everything. How can I have a relationship with someone if it seems like an affair? But really neither one of us is technically in a relationship anymore. HELP!!!
2006-06-20 12:42:15 · 4 answers · asked by DaBeautiful1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your not in a relationship then your not having an affair .. that can get ugly i guess you cant help how you feel .. I mean if you have feelings for this guy maybe u needa ask yourself who u treasure more as a friend him or the girl ? cuz once she finds out dont count on being any friend of hers .. i personally would never date any guy my friend has been with or whatever but to each there own .. I guess do what makes you happy .. your all adults no reason to sneak around just keep it real thats really all you can do .. .. its sad when kids are involved ..follow your heart good luck to you all
2006-06-20 12:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are rebounding and knowing what the other is going through. Be friends but leave the relationship thing alone. If you are ending a relationship work on your own self worth and worry about another relationship later.
2016-05-20 06:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you have to totally break up with your bf/gf and he has to stop seeing her and move out etc. Then start going out.
2006-06-20 12:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by daisy519 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to beat it... hook up with the one you wanna be with
2006-06-20 12:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋