2006-06-20 12:40:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men are men, what can I say. They do these things so that they can continue to feel like man even though they are happily married. At least they are not out trying to pick up on other ladies. Try going with him from time to time, its pretty interesting.
2006-06-20 12:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably many reasons.
One, strip clubs are more than just a place to see naked women. It's a place for male bonding. It's like a bar without pressure...you don't have to constantly be trying to impress females...all the females there will act interested for money.
Two, he might be problems at home. Maybe his beautiful wife is a ***** and treats him like garbage. He finds the illusionary affection of exotic dancers somewhat nurturing.
Three, he might be a player...maybe he feels that if he can have a beautiful woman then why not TWO beautiful women?
Four, he might be just bored of seeing one women naked for years. As the old saying goes: "Show me the most beautiful woman on earth and I'll show you a guy who's tired of having sex with her."
2006-06-20 12:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has, and I've gone with him. If I'm not with him, it's just a social outlet for him and the guys. If he golfed, he'd do that instead. But I love and trust him and know he always comes home to me. it just happens he has friends who like the relax at a strip club.
And seriously, I know where he hangs out and I am NOT threatened by the women there. Honestly... and he only does it once or twice a year - for a random night out or a bachelor party. No big deal.
2006-06-20 12:48:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what one has to do with the other...surely you are not threatened by his going to a strip club with buddies occasionally. It is silly fun, no more, no less. So go with him. Trust me, the gals there are NOT that beautiful, and certainly NOT that sexy. They are working girls earning a living. Hell, go with him and treat him to a lap dance...that should embarrass the heck out of him. I think that once you see what actually goes on in a strip club, you will be much more at ease. I am certainly NOT going to advise your forbidding your husband to go anywhere...that will not sit well with him, and there is just no need in it.
2006-06-20 12:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men go to strip clubs to hang out with friends. some go for the show. and some men go because they like to look at beautiful women. my guess, being a married man myself is that something is missing in his life.or he just wants to have fun with the guys.
2006-06-20 12:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by roychndlr71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always go with my husband to strip clubs. It's a turn on for me and we just have wild sex all night long. I dont know why men don't just take their wife if they aren't hiding anything.
2006-06-20 13:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by vastilwell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most wives do not like being viewed as objects. Strippers act in ways wives don't. How many times have most wives stripped for their husbands. Not many I'll wager. Frankly most guys like naked women. Sure its cash only and strictly hands off but clubs can be fun occasionally.
Besides most guys don't have a brass pole at home.....
2006-06-20 12:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are boring and predicable... Think about shaking things up. Men are visual creatures we don't care about what went on this afternoon at the P.T.A. meeting. We want to see you in a different light. All men want prim and proper women during the day and a vixen in the bedroom. Sorry but it's the truth.
2006-06-20 12:50:49 · answer #8 · answered by quest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby has never been to a strip club...and he better not.Especially,with a wife like me at home!
2006-06-20 13:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love beautiful women
2006-06-20 12:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by john_eulett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋