My husband works with a 19 year old girl. Last summer she offered to babysit and he got her cell phone number. Well, last week she called him on his cell phone. He said he doesn't remember giving it out to her...I don't know why he would give it to her unless he WANTED her to call him sometime...do you think he might be cheating?
2006-06-20 12:38:36 · 27 answers · asked by LaDaisy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she just wanted to know if y'all still need a babysitter.
2006-06-20 12:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by oaksterdamhippiechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly sounds shady, but you can't go pointing a finger without proof. And a phone call doesn't constitute "cheating". Even if he DID give his number out to her, maybe he just wanted the thrill of knowing a 19 year old girl would call him. That doesn't mean he ever did anything or would consider doing anything.
2006-06-20 12:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by wendyc222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but I'm 99.99% certain he is up to no good. I speak from personal experience. I know of at least 2 different people who have been involved in a situation like this.
If he's not already cheating, there's something brewing and you had better watch out.
Saying he didn't remember giving it to her is a lame excuse.
Don't be blindsided by any lies he may tell you in a situation like this. Do some investigation of your own and keep your eyes wide open.
And especially if he starts saying stuff like:
"What? You don't trust me? Then there's nothing I can do about it."
If he says stuff like that instead of giving you rational explanations, he's obviously hiding someone.
2006-06-22 06:29:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on. Walk gingerly on this. She offered to babysit last summer and he got her #. He probably gave her his for the same reason. Don't jump to conclusions just yet. He may very well be telling the truth.
Knuckleheads here are so quick to say "Get rid of him".."He's lying", etc. I would think the best judge of character regarding him would be you. So, make note of this and set it aside. It probably is nothing and people here are trying to get your panties in a bunch. If you've been married for awhile I think you'll see other signs of infidelity without having to second guess on a cell phone call.
Good luck
2006-06-20 12:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sleeping with a prostitute and coming back to you and risking your life? Knock him out over the head with a frying pan and tie him up when he's unconscious and shine a light in his eyes and make him repent for a week. Don't do that. That's what I would do though. Just leave, take the evidence, and then take half of everything. He owes you now. Personally, I'd get the frying pan.
2016-03-26 23:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon now, do you really need help answering this? I don't suppose he also gave her your cell number or your home number, did he? That's what a husband would do if he truly was interested only in babysitting service.
When you understand the motive, the action becomes understandable and predictable. In this case, motive and action are adding up to only one thing - he wants her.
2006-06-21 08:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen or met this girl? Apart from this incident, has your husband been acting differently lately? If he has, it might be a cause for concern. She might have obtained his number from another work colleague if they are still working in the same place.
2006-06-20 12:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by pittabread 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a serious cause for an *** whooping ..but heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy..thats just me....
think about it ..if you truly needed a babysitter how come he didnt just give her you guys HOUSE NUMBER or YOUR cell phone so she could talk to YOU. There is no need for him to have given her his cell phone number..they can talk at work..what this exchanging of phone numbers?......just a LITTLE BIT TOO FRIENDLY FOR ME.....
2006-06-20 12:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you think he is cheating then he probably is doing it. Check the phone records to see how many times she called. If he is lying get rid of him. Because you can never trust a liar.
2006-06-20 12:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by biggtray 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly it! dont let him play stupid. all guys remember giving people their number, and if she asked him for it, all he had to do was give her a fake number or actually be a responsible husband and tell her that "im sorry, im married" and therefore can't chat with a soon to be home wrecker.
2006-06-20 12:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by alilfishy06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer. Call the girl and find out the truth to the story!
2006-06-20 12:41:04 · answer #11 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋