2006-06-20 12:20:48 · 31 answers · asked by a h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By doing nothing you are implying consent. If you are not ok with it, then you have some decisions to make.
2006-06-20 12:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know, ******* like that used to be put to death for such an offense back in the day. Cheat on your wife and get huge rocks hurled at your head until you're dead. It's so acceptable and encouraged in todays society that people think that not only is it okay but it's cool. The advertize it on TV like it's fun and exciting but they don't show how it crushes the person that got cheated on. There's really no recourse for that kind of behavior. You have to take the initiative to show that the consequences of his crimes against you is that you're not going to be there for him to walk all over you and for you to pick up the pieces when he falls apart.
Even if he were to stop it's going to take a very very very long time to rebuild trust.
From a Christian perspective, it says that God hates divorce, but also Jesus said that divorce is permisable if your spouse was unfaithful. It's such a destroying thing and I am sorry for the pain you've gone through, but you should leave him. I am a huge advocate of marriage and sticking through the hard times but when it's habitual then you need to move on and find someone that is going to love and cherish you and be faithful to you to give you a strong sense of security and trust.
I'm praying for you.
2006-06-20 12:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Levi I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, if you know he cheats on you, then you really need to do something about that. He can't give you any excuse as to why he cheats on you or whatever. Now, if you want to stay in the relationship and take it, then that's you. If you keep saying to yourself that you want to stay for the kids, the kids need their father, that's BULL SHYT!!!! That is words of a week woman. You be strong and you do what your heart tells you not your mind. You let your mind "HELP" you with the decision, but you let your heart do its thing. Happiness is just around the corner and the grass is ALWAYS green on the other side. Find happiness!
2006-06-20 12:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by sr04model 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself why is he cheating? Is there a problem in your relationship? he is not getting it at home? has he always done this and you've allowed it before you got married? men cheat for many different reasons, and some cheat just because. (you can be doing everything right and he will still cheat) but you have to ask yourself whats different in your marriage now, why is he straying?
if you can answer any of these question then you already know what to do you dont need us. because your heart is already telling you. LISTEN
2006-06-20 12:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by LVLYLDY98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-20 12:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him at once after warning him for three times. If there is any problem in it then starts cheating him too to teach him a lesson.
2006-06-20 14:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by ayub b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, be patient with him and it will probably wear off eventually, though it may take many years. Just trust in God, not in man (or woman) and do as the Holy Spirit leads you. True love isn't always easy, but it IS worthwhile.
2006-06-20 12:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get the courage to get your self together and leave him,or you pack his things and he gets out and you stand strong on your two feet and dont let him fool you,once a cheater and then over again twice more he will never change and the sad thing is its not that your not good enough for him he is not good enough for you,so be free of this man and move on to find someone who will treat you like alady and respect you and find that one true love who will make you never second question your decision
2006-06-20 12:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that she has tried talking to him or waiting for him to "change" the next best thing for her to do is leave him and file for divorce before he brings her something home that the doctors can't take off!
2006-06-20 12:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Nyema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like to be cheated on I would say hell ctick around. Or if your curious ask to join in. If not I say leave him.
2006-06-20 12:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Dustin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're staying why? He has a cheating problem and you have a staying problem. Fix your problem and don't worry what happens to him. Get your life in order and move on.
2006-06-20 12:24:26 · answer #11 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋