2006-06-20 12:17:27 · 17 answers · asked by nakboo 1 in Sports ➔ Basketball
Do what you think is best if at some stage boyfriends come up just mention it to her
2006-06-24 17:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by weasel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever you think you are now, remember you're still 14.. I say drop the issue, and do something more important like going to school, going out with your friends whatever just like what girls ur age are enjoying now.. When you reach 18-20 and you still think you are bisexual,then you are.. Its not a problem, its who you are.. The world will understand,so much your mom.. But for now,go out and have some fun, there are more things in life to enjoy at 14..
2006-06-20 12:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by BLACKPOPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - it is a confusing time for you - you should wait until you get more independence, like when you have a job and a drivers license. At that point, you can be recognized as a responsible, young soon to be adult. Your choice in lifestyle will be taken more seriously and be more respected by then by your mom. However, this is your mom, she loves you, she wants to protect you, she would probably like to know that she not only has to give you advice about boys, but about girls as well.
2006-06-20 12:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably aren't bi.. You might just have really close friends that are girls and so you have feelings but that doesn't mean you are bi.. Beside you should stick with guys much better at pleasing you in certain ways.. Also you should wait till you are more grown up before you decided such a thing and Go to a church..
2006-06-20 12:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just hold on a bit, grow into yourself, learn more about you then go about telling your mom what's going on...What if you aren't bisexual, but gay or straight? You don't need to complicate things more that being 14 already is...
2006-06-20 12:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Miss smarty pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait till your a lttle older
You may decide to go more one way or the other and then yuo will have to have the conversation again.
Also when she hears the word " bisexual" she will probably only hear the word " sexual" and freak out, thinking your having sex.
2006-06-20 12:22:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself for now until you know that you definitely a bi-sexual and not bi-sexual curious. Then you have to make the decision whether or not she can handle it.
Good Luck.
2006-06-20 12:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by older woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell your mom? I doubt she wants to know. The only reason I cold think off is to piss her off. How do you know you are bisexual? If you need to talk to someone I suggest a counselor.
2006-06-20 12:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say yes she is your mother and she should accept you for who you are. Not only if you tell her now she will be able to grasp that you like both when you are older and in more serious relationships.
2006-06-20 12:21:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dustin C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, before you do anything, learn how to spell - It's BISEXUAL.
And second of all, you're too young to tell her. Just wait, it won't hurt anyone. Preferably until you're out of the house, but yeah.
2006-06-20 12:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by calivane07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋