2006-06-20 12:07:20 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Kevin,
why do you think your so special?
what makes you so special?
your last question was deleted, and I am really wondering what your doing, because for some odd reason you are craving attention.
2006-06-26 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Me 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Well, to be honest, The best I'm sorry gift would be for you to just be honest about why you are sorry and open up with your heart. I am a 40 year old woman, and the best way for a man to say he is sorry, is not with gifts! ( especially if money is not an issue! material objects mean little or nothing at that point) It is by sitting your lady down (brittany or whoever) and like I said open up your heart and express how sorry you are for what you have done. And if you mean it, say you will never do such a thing again. Show your woman with thoughts of expression not gifts. heartfelt feelings go the distance with a woman. Good luck! Mellanie
2006-06-20 13:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by sweetmellanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best "I'm sorry" gift is something personal from your heart. It is the kind of gift that money can't buy.
To get my attention a guy had someone paint a picture of a sad clown's face and had the local fire station knock on my door early on a Sunday morning to personally deliver it to me. I thought that was very creative and it worked.
Flowers are nice but they fade and don't last. Those sad eyes from that picture always reminded me of how sad he was without me. So each time we were apart or had a tiff, I'd look at those sad puppy dog eyes in that pic. and have to pick up the phone and call!
2006-06-25 04:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping Britney's condition in mind. (I'm assuming the gift is for Britney)? Tell Britney you have a quiet evening planned for the two of you. Have someone take care of the other baby for the night.
Wisk Britney away to a top notch restaurant that you both love, where you can have complete privacy and enjoy a candlelit meal, soft music. Take time to talk to her now that you have a quiet and peaceful place that's your own while you eat dinner. Hold her hand, rub it gently, look in to her eyes and tell her how very much you love her.
Talk about your future together and how excited you are about her and your growing family. Let her know how you know things are going to change for the better, starting tonight. Tell her you are so very sorry for whatever it is you have done and promise that it will never happen again.
Before you go to the restaurant thought, order some beautiful flowers, (be sure they're her favorite), and get her a comfortable as well as beautiful maternity night gown in her favorite color. Selct some calming music, lovely smelling aromatherapy (a scent you know she enjoys), some nice body cream as well as some candles, and have these delivered while you are out dining.
Politely ask your maid, put everything in place, (the aromatherapy, body cream, the candles, and music). Make certain the beautiful night gown you have chosen for her is hung in the bathroom as well.
When you get home, run a warm bath and add the aromatherapy, light the beautiful candles, turn on the calming music and shut the light so that she can relax.
If she wants you to join her in the tub, make sure you're very gentle with her, scrubbing her back and allowing her to lay back on your chest while you wrap your arms around her. Tell her how very much she means to you now and she will always be the center of your heart.
If she chooses to be in the tub alone, then sit beside the tub and just talk gently while you look into her eyes. Either way, let her know how much you love her and how much she means to you.
When she has finished bathing, help her out of the tub, and help her dry off. Then take her into the bedroom where you will lovingly massage body lotion all over her. Just allow her to relax while you do this. (Oh, place the body lotion in a pan of hot water while she is bathing, so that it won't be cold when you put it on her).
When you're finished, help her into her new night gown, hug her gently and lovingly, whisper in her ear and bed down for the night.
Extravagent gifts such as cars etc.. aren't always what a woman needs. Women are very emotional (especially when pregnant), and they just love to be romanced. She needs to know that you love her no matter what her condition is, and remember, you are the reason why she is pregnant right now..... ;)
Don't just do this one time Kevin, do it often. Be there to hold her hand, walk beside her, help her with the children, assist her in and out of the car, up out of a chair, out of bed, whatever you can do. Be a gentleman and treat her like a lady. I promise you, you'll see results!!
Good luck Kevin!!
2006-06-22 17:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Healthnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey kevin are u planning to buy a sorry gift for britney well here is what i say u get her take her on a week vacation without kids or any thing go to an island and then rent a romantic little getaway cabin for u two and then you can make her dinner and serve her and give her dessert and then you two just sit out on the deck and lay out in the night and just lay in each other's arms and tell her how sorry you are and just talk about your future and tell her how you love her and fall asleep in each other's arms and have fun and be sure to have a present roses or jewelry or sumthin
o and by the way you better love my answer cuz i spent forever typing this and you can give me the ten points LOL
2006-06-20 12:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by <SuperStar> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
saying sorry ans learning from what you did is a true way of saying sorry.Try talking,be truthful,tell her why you are sorry ,face what you have done.If buying her a gift heals her scar.What kind of a women is she.Just saying sorry and talking about what you did or said should be good enough,doesnt fix what you did but its nice to know that you have learned from it and dont do it again.I hate guys who think they can buy somthing thinking it will make it all better.Have more pride in her and you.If she did somthing to you and she bought you somthing would it make you feel better?But then again money is not a isssue with you.Take it slow show her you have learned and then if you realy feel the need to buy hetr somthing try finding out what her best meal is and start cooking,take her out to a park and have a nice brunch.The rest of the day just have fun togther,do things you have never done befor.If you love her truly make a day of loughter and fun,If you buy her a ring every time she looks at it she will know why you gave it to her, if you buy her flowers she will watch to see how long the rose lives.Good luck
2006-06-20 12:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one I dont give a sh*t if youre Kevin Federline or just some bum off the side of the road, you cant just buy your self out of a rut. If you did something wrong wether you have money or not youre just going to face the concequences, BE A MAN! You should have thought of them before you decided to do what ever it was that you did wrong in the first place. If you are Kevin (which im sure youre not) then you need to realize that YOU HAVE A KID TO CARE FOR!!! That means get your head outta your a** and care for him. Stop throwing divorce back and fourth, its just an easy way out that dumbasses like your self, LOVE to use as a leverage. YOU HAVE A KID IF YOURE GOING TO LEAVE THEN LEAVE IF NOT QUIT THE HEAD GAMES!
2006-06-20 12:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's britney you wanna give a gift to, you better move out of her life. i think that's the best gift you can give her. well if u wanna give her material gifts, money could be a small problem as to buy gifts suiting brit level
if u're not really kev fed., you might wanna give your love a diamond ring or a necklace worth $1 million [u said money isn't a problem. is it?]
Good Luck anyway
2006-06-21 05:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry is not something you can buy... or something to be given... (thats forgiveness)...
The best sorry is the sorry you show someone...
The saying I've always heard is "ACTIONS ARE LOUDER THAN WORDS!" So give some action... pay attention to what that persons needs and wants are... be attentful and show that you care... that is the best thing you can do... and it doesn't cost a dime...
2006-06-20 13:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont buy a freakin gift to say I'm sorry that just makes you look like you want something. To get some one to truely forgive you you just have to really be sorry and prove to that person that you wont do it again. Money cant by happiness but patience and sencerity will get you closer
2006-06-20 12:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by pennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if buying anything will really help, it will just give her a reason to get mad at you know what I mean. If every time you mess up you buy a gift to make up, she is going to catch on," Hey if I get mad at him he is going to buy a present to say that he is sorry." The best thing that you can give is your love.
2006-06-20 12:12:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋