2006-06-20 12:05:48 · 25 answers · asked by dchella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
listen asshole, quit asking yahoo stupid questions .you should be cleaning the basement. love always and forever .........................your wife
2006-06-22 08:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by schella 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No way on this God's-green Earth that will ever happen. I gave him my word that I'll stay with him and only him no matter what, and no matter how tough life can/will get. I love him just too damn much to go that low as to cheat on him in any way, shape or form... I guess, I was just raised differently with different values and respect for everyone.
Cheating... no matter what you do to hide it or even make sure that he won't know... The problem with that is this: If the man loves a woman with all his heart and soul, he WILL (more often than not) pick up on the tiniest changes in her that usually is brought up by an unfaithful act, no matter how hard she'll try to hide it from him. He's not an idiot and will be made out to be one either. Same goes for women... of course we can "sniff" out the scent of the other woman on our men.
You can run and hide from someone else finding out, but not from your conscience. It'll just eat you alive from the inside out. It's the only thing that will not give you any rest and will keep you up at night (not just your spouse)... Ask yourself this: Will you be able to live with the life-long guilt of ever betraying your partner in any way? For a little while yes, but not forever... right? So, the best thing to do is to never do that no matter what is going on. You can get through any problems together and work them out eventually, and there's never a "best" reason to do something like that and/or leaving your significant other. There's however a best reason to stay together--you love each other and gave each other a vow of being together "for better and for worst, in sickness and in health"... why would you want to break that promise and the word you gave each other to stay and never leave each other's side?
2006-06-20 19:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have done that, been there before. It just isn't worth it!! In my first marriage, I cheated and got away with it! Or, did I? I felt horrible most of the time. The lying, deceat became unbarable. Even though he was a horrible man. It just brought me down to his level, And I ended up not liking myself very much. Needless to say a devorce happened. I have since remarried and have had a few chances to do the "cheating thing" I have not! it is not worth it. I love my husband and chose not to feel bad about myself again. It has also caused me to have trust issues with anyone, If I can get away with it, can't anybody?? When I find being true to myself, it makes your relationship trust worthy and strong. Good luck! Mellanie
2006-06-20 19:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweetmellanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. We may be able to hide it from our spouse, but we can never hide it from God. You reap what you sow. You made a vow before God when you married. Marriage is sacred; keep it that way. Adultery is one of the 10 Commandments. I know we're not perfect, but we strive everyday to live as Christ.
I speak this in Love. Honor your husband/wife.
2006-06-20 19:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would marry a woman I love a lot , more for the person than for her body.I will kick and curse myself if in any case I cheat on my wife ,who I have a healthy n blossming relationship with.
2006-06-24 11:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because I'm guaranteed to feel guilty for the rest of my life.
2006-06-20 20:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you the truth that's what I'm doing at the moment and it's a pretty good thrill but if you spouse treats you good and he shows you all the love and affection you need no don't do it
2006-06-20 19:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by betty b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I have been cheated on and I know how bad it hurts I wouldnt wish that on my worst enemy. I love my fiance way to much to even let that cross my mind
2006-06-20 19:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by pennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person doesnt look so great and the sex is boring...YES..Go for it,what do you got to lose beside time? Just think the other person is bound to do it
2006-06-20 19:15:22 · answer #9 · answered by YeLlOwSiSsY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely yes but then feel extreme guilt.
2006-06-20 19:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will get caught i thought the same thing too but i got caught dont do it.
2006-06-20 19:08:09 · answer #11 · answered by reddishlady29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋