My daughter actually moved in with this man and he won't let her answer the phone, or give her the phone. I loaned her my cell phone and it gets lost, AT THE BAR WHERE THEY WERE WORKING then it gets found over a week later and the man gives it back fully charged! The guy takes off with the only phone they have when my daughter is supposed to be calling the cops to report my phone stolen, so she can't report it. SO I do and the cops say they have him on video getting the phone. This guy has been grand jury indictment for attempting to run over a cop with his personal car. Ok, I vented, I feel better, so what do you all think of a man who is in his mid-40's with a girl who is the exact same age as one of his sons? (The same age, same birthdate, the same hospital etc,)
2006-06-20 11:59:14 · 23 answers · asked by skye 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think he is a piece of crap and you daughter has gotten herself into a bad situation. Unfortunately she is old enough that she can make her own dumb decisions, but things like that make me wish I had a bag of common sense that I could use to beat the crap out of people who do dumb things.
2006-06-20 12:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gregie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand your reasons for needing to vent, I'd feel the same way. It almost sounds like a situation where a father kidnapped a daughter, or something!!!!
Is your daughter being held prisoner?? Seems to me she could walk out the door any time she felt like it.
2006-06-20 12:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That man is a disgusting controling and manipulating old guy. He could be potentially have sex with some one his kids age. If it was just 3 years earlier he would be charged with sexual misconduct with a minor and thats a felony in most states.
2006-06-20 12:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by footballlovin_girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i completly agree with booty its your daughters choice. no matter what you tell her or say to her she isnt going to listen to you or any one else. shell do what she wants to do. leave her to it. let her learn by mistakes. the more you tell her the more you will push her away. if you let her get on with it and tell her ok look. if it doesnt work you have a place here to come back to. be a friend to her. and shell appriciate it more. and wait for her return. oh and age difference isnt a issue. hes a insecure man. thats why hes protecting her and wont let her out of his sight. she will get fed up with this. be sure she will be home.
2006-06-20 13:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That HE'S having a mid life crisis and SHE will get tired of his much older *** sooner than later. The age difference is too great
and it just sounds like a fling to me.
2006-06-20 12:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like your daughter is in a very controlling relationship but you have to remember she's an adult you can only"bring the cattle to the water but you can't force them to drink"
maybe she likes bad boys.
2006-06-20 12:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay do you think some of us need to answer this question? He sounds like a loser I mean look at what is just got charged with.
2006-06-20 12:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is fresh meat n he want sex only n since she is young she is looking 4 love but he dont love her n once he gets tired of her he will let her go just b there 4 her 2 help her pick up the pieces.
2006-06-20 12:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by reddishlady29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a control issue. because some women his age wont take all the abuse he is dishing out. You need to get your daughter out of their fast before he start beating on her if he already hasn't
2006-06-20 12:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by tony a 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i BELEIVE THAT IF SHE IS NOT LIVING WITH YOU THEN, THAT'S YOUR DAUGHTERS CHOICE...NOT TO BE BLUNT...BUT YOU RAISED HER TO THE BEST OF OUR ABILITY! PEOPLE LEARN FROM THEIR MISTAKES!! THATS THE ONLY WAY WE CAN GROW! I BELEIVE SHE WILL SOON GET SICK OF THE TORTURE, LOCK & KEY AND LEAVE, BUT IF NOT...YOU KNOW SOME PEOPLE LIKE THAT SORT OF THING. AUTHORITY SOMETIMES IS A TURN ON FOR PEOPLE. aGE IS JUST A NUMBER, BUT CONTROL IS A TOTAL DIFFERENT STORY! THANKS FOR YOUR TIME...
2006-06-20 12:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by bootyluxury 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋