me and my bf were both virgins then we had sex for the first time...we know were in love...and he proposed it wont happen till im outt of high school but its stilll a big step..... he said he knows its whats he wants...and its what i want too.....one problem....im 14 and hes 16...
2006-06-20 11:46:19 · 17 answers · asked by chocolate_thunda2800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i hate you all you dont know ****...we love each other hes not like other guys i dont care how all you whores out there acted when you were my age but dont tell me how/what i feel cuz ur full of shyt
2006-06-20 12:35:18 · update #1
sweety, do not listen to this people. they dont know nuttin! you go girl! the sooner the better! life is short you know! you will regret that you didnt do it sooner! im telling ya! it'll bennefit you in many way sweety. one, you have early start! two, you'll gain experience! guys like women with alot of experience when it comes to sex. just like how you be applying for a job. that's what us guys look for in a women. anyways, good luck to ya and enjoy! i mean it!
2006-06-20 14:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Thank You 1 · 3⤊ 4⤋
basically take it slow. initiate out with in user-friendly terms some wide-spread making out and then sort of transition into some "third base" sort of activities in case you will. basically be organic, in case you attempt to rigidity it it is going to likely be awkward for the two one in all you. The extra you are trying this the extra soft you will get. attempt taking a bathtub with one yet another. that is a great sort of relaxing. attempt to no longer positioned intercourse up on a pedestal. you come across that when you eventually do it that it is not that vast of a deal and the sky's do no longer open up and a beam of light comes shinning down. at the same time because it truly is relaxing, the expectancy of the 1st time could be extra advantageous than what it truly is.
2016-10-31 05:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by shuey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young, the hormonal changes and the "idea" of love and marraige are strong, but they are not real love. Real love takes alot of time, patience, care, hope, tenderness, and forgiveness. True love isn't easy, but it is worthwhile. What you are experiencing right now is probably not true love, though I am sure you are both probably fond of each other and "feel" that you are "in love." Real love, and the "idea of love" are not the same thing. You are still quite young and have alot of experiences, trials, and tribulations to go through before you are refined into the people you will become.
2006-06-20 11:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not want to hear this,But you too are still kids,be careful and protect your self,once you start its hard to stop.I was 18 and thought I was in love and knew everything.N_O_T.
Stop now,you are to young to start a family.
If you still feel like your in love when he is 18 out of school With a job to support you.then you have my blessings.my Dad alway said why buy the cow when you can get the milk free.(He was right).
2006-06-20 12:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by mejunebug2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP RIGHT NOW!!!! you are toooooo young. Please listen to people that tell you that. I know having someone tell you you're to young really bites , but I know from experience,,,,14 is too young. Have fun, do things that aren't so grown up, cause when you are grown you WILL regret it. Let them wait for you. YOU ARE WORTH IT..... Just because you get a tingly feeling inside or your heart "skips" a beat,,,it does not equal love.
2006-06-20 11:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not tell you what you want to hear. I was your age once and I have not forgotten it. If I could have done it over I would wait until I was married because when you get married the honeymoon will not be as special as if you had waited.
2006-06-20 13:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a little young to be worried so much about sex and having sex....if its really what you want, well, its has already happened so there is no turning back...but if you wanna wait some more, then you had better tell him. and if he has a problem with it, it is considered rape and he can get in trouble....be good to yourself, you are only young once.....
2006-06-20 11:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Thickness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow......at 14 and 16, you don't know anything about love...sorry to burst your bubble. Keep your legs shut - you're going to create a reputation for yourself, not to mention the HUGE risk of STD's and pregnancy.....
2006-06-20 12:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by bluez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get married when you are 25, have FUN until then. You'll have a couple of fond memories of your first time with your boyfriend and you'll say to yourself, "Thank God I experienced life before getting tied down!"
2006-06-20 11:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP, don't even get engaged at this point!! If you can't afford to raise a child, don't have sex, its that simple!! Get to a counselor at school or a health advisor (they are free) and get some facts before you throw your life away....you only get one shot at life, make it count!
2006-06-20 11:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋