I've been friend with a girl for more than a year and she loves me but says can't be my girlfriend. I want to be closer to her but for the second time it was going well but again ended the same way, again as I just became a normal friend but she says i'm her her best friend!
any idea?
2006-06-20 11:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by ram0n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
thank you all for your great answers, I have one more thing, she says we're really different and that's why we can't be like that, also i tried to change myself but I failed.
2006-06-20 12:00:53 · update #1
wooooooooow, all the answers are great, I can't choose the best answer ;)
Thank you ALL...
2006-06-21 12:16:24 · update #2
I have some friends like that to who wants me to be there gf, but i tell them that i dont see them that way. Dont push the issue any more before you dont have her as a best friend.
2006-06-20 11:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's funny because you think you know a person being best friends in all but that's not her at all she/he is totally different when in a relationship both he/she expects more from the other person and feelings change because of the sexual relations which brings a trust issue, it will never be the same as being friends
2006-06-20 19:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by eciyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she know that she can have you easily. For some odd reason that makes women not want you. If you can't be her friend without wanting to be closer to her all the time, then you should probably not spend that much time with her.
2006-06-20 18:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be in love with someone u expect them to be just like u..or that u agree in soooo many things in life..u put all ur expectations,dreams,hopes & happiness in them..and if they won't live up to that..we get hurt & dissapointed.
To be friends with someone,u don't need to be so much alike..u can agree on some things and not on others..and the friendship would go just fine..
So,I think u and the girl..are perfect as friends..but are not so much alike ...don't lose her friendship too...just be happy as u r with her :)
2006-06-20 18:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to remain friends with you that way when she feeling down bout something who can she turn to her best friend and thats you. Some gilrs may not be looking for a boyfrined just a friend
2006-06-20 18:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by jonathanwifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you become really attached to a girl then it means ya become like brother and sister like a best friend.And sometimes that makes you not become her girlfriend because then they just see you as a best friend or brother to rely on.Like a big brother.So then it gets in your way of starting a relationship.Hope I answered your question. :)))
2006-06-20 18:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Nohemy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are just friends, you can do and say anything to each other but once you cross that line, it makes things complicated. it will never go back to how it was before you crossed that line. trust me.
2006-06-20 18:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Silly KeKe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just respect her wishes and stick to being her friend
2006-06-20 18:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by slimchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people are just good being friends. maybe one day you guys can be more then friends. Just be her friend.
2006-06-20 19:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by Girl in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a gf and treeatt her good make ur "friend" jealuous
2006-06-20 18:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by your_ma_was_here 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋