im 15..he's 18...didnt use a condom?

Question

soo im 15 and i wuz messin around with my cuzins old friend...he juz turned 18...well yea i lost my virginity 2 him.. adn well he didnt use a condom..and im like freaking out now....and i juz cant believe i wuz so dumb and didnt ask or anything..it juz never crossed my mind...im period is suposta start in a few days and i juz wanna kno how likely is it 4 me 2 b pregnate...and well...how do i tell my cuzin without him like killing me and him...cuz he's gonna find out sooner or later cuz he's friends with my cuzin.....but yea i kno im worrind 2 much but..idk i juz cant help it..it's all i think about

Answer 1

Yikes! The probability of you being pregnant is pretty high since you did not use a condom with that guy. And i think your cousin is the last thing you should be worried about.

Answer 2

sweety, calm down! Although it is possible to get pregnant with only having sex once, it's not as likely as you think. Most women try for months and even years to get pregnant before it actually happens. Just wait and see. If it's within 5 days of your period, you can get a test at the store to find out for sure. If you aren't pregnant, then just take this as a learning experience. Tell the guys no, or if you want to, then make sure they wear protection. If you are planning on staying sexually active (which I hope you don't, b/c then you will more than likely end up pregnant while still a teen), then make sure you talk to someone you trust about getting on the pill. If you do end up pregnant, then just look at the positive and stay in school!!! Don't let people get you down, that won't help you and your possible little one.

Answer 3

First of all, you could end up pregnant depending on when in your monthly cycle you had sex with this guy. As for home pregnancy tests, wait until at least a week after the day you were supposed to start your period to take one, especially if this was your first time. For me and most of my friends, we were LATE after our first times. I was 8 days late and completely freaking out even though I had used protection because no form of birth control is 100%. Next thing, always always make sure the guy wears a condom. Yeah I know he will make excuses for not wanting it, but it will protect you against many STDs and pregnancy if worn right. Do you or did you know if this guy has any STDs? That should be your bigger concern. As for your cuz, don't worry so much. Its your body and you have to be the one to decide whats right for you.

Answer 4

First of all, when did you have sex with this guy? If it was within the last 72 hours, contact Planned Parenthood immediately to see about getting emergency contraception. It's a high dose of birth control pills that can prevent pregnancy if taken within 72 hours of unprotected sex. If it's been longer, you have no choice but to wait and see.

You also need to think about having yourself tested for STDs. some, like HPV and chlamydia, are very common and can cause problems even if you're not experiencing any symptoms.

I know you're scared and it's probably a good thing that you are. Sex has a lot of potential consequences and if you plan to keep doing it, you need to protect yourself.

Answer 5

well from now on you should carry your own condoms and NEVER forget or be too shy to ask again. And because you are stressing so much about it your period may come late cuz stress can do that. And as for your cousin well, he will have to deal with it, It's you and the dudes business not his. PS sure hope you arent preggers and learned a BIG lesson from this

Answer 6

Try not to worry until after you haven't gotten your period. You have bigger things to worry about sweetie not only might you be pregnant but you could have an STD as well. And if you are pregnant this guy should watch out b/c he could very easily go to jail for rape. Let this be a lesson to you. I can tell just by the way you write you are way to immature to even be thinking about sex, let alone raising a kid.

Answer 7

hmm you sound like my friend lol when she lost it even with a condom she thought she was pregnant...but yes it is likely you could be....but thats also if he blew in you lol if not then the chance is less. but wait for your period and see....from now on though i suggest using protection or getting on birth control. im not one to preach or anything but im 16 and pregnant with my first son....and same senerio i was fooling around and lost it to him...but i didnt get pregnant the first time it took a couple im just lucky he stayed by my side....if it turns out your pregnant this guy might not alot of things will change...well thats all good luck

Answer 8

Gurl, ur not alone i had a friend with the same issue.Well here's what to do remember when was your last period and if you had sex 2 weeks or more before peroide well you are okay. have you ever start getting sleepier than usually. have your stomach start hurting really really bad that your about to past out and sure that your periode not coming that probely be warning that your pregant if so do set ups and it will be okay tell me the results here's my email address [e-mail] good luck gurl

Answer 9

You gave it up that easily and you were a virgin? uh huh...well, 1st of all he should be put under the jail house for having sex with a minor (dont know the legal age of consent in your state, but he's an adult). 2nd of all, yes you could be pregnant AND have an STD. What do you think happens when you dont use a condom????

Answer 10

Sounds like your another weak minded girl on the fast track to being a slut. You really should have more self value. To most guys these days your just a hole to poke regardless of how much they say they like you. You are most assuredly more than just a hole to poke, you should work on developing your self worth