My husband has been locked up for over a year now, he cheated on me when he was out but he treated me good and we have 3 children together. But i've been going out with one of my co-worker. We started out as just friends but now i'm in love with him.
2006-06-20 11:38:03 · 11 answers · asked by msnewboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is he in love with you? Is your husband in jail? Ummm. I say you have a serious problem. How old are your children? Follow your heart - it is the only way to be happy. Even if other people will get hurt.
2006-06-20 11:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really unsure? Think about your question. Your husband is locked up, and you've been seeing another man. You don't say how you feel about your husband. I think you need some therapy, and one less man. Resolve your relationship with your husband. THEN deal with other men. If your "co-worker" is any kind of friend, he'll support you. Grief is all you will get from this situation if you continue. I know easier said than done, but I've been there.
2006-06-20 18:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Raine~blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normaly I would say you made a vow to your husband, till death do u part. But this answer is up to you. I troubles me too, but do you love this man more, is he reliable, and most importantly, does he have a good impact on your kids. Will they be able to like him as a friend and a father. If your husband cheated on you, then he did. but ask your self, How long is he in jail, do I want to hurt him, will this efect my kids. Meditate on it, think, and think hard, because no one here can decide for you. Just follow your heart because its your choice, make it, and dont look back.
2006-06-20 18:57:51 · answer #3 · answered by lilbrowillie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u told me why he's locked up 4 it would help but u r married 2 him. U made a commitment 'till death do u part'.That doesn't mean u should try 2 kill him or commit suicide just in case ur thinkin about it.
2006-06-20 18:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to divorce your husband and let him go before entering into a new relationship. File the papers and get it going. You also need to be honest with your husband and tell him how you feel and dont play him for the fool.
2006-06-20 19:26:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on how long your husband is going to be in jail if it more than 5 years why should you put your life on hold go for the other guy
2006-06-20 18:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by anastaisa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this one in a movie. You need to talk to your man period. I mean all things considered, something like that could send him back to jail, could leave your kids orphans, could, couldn't whatever, reprocussions are just that, little shockwaves that can make or break someone or someone else!
2006-06-20 18:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you shouldnt be married to the man if your not in love with him. And he should know that.
2006-06-20 18:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by flowerinatx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart be honest with your spouse
2006-06-20 18:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce and get with this guy
2006-06-20 18:41:17 · answer #10 · answered by A Dizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋