I feel like my wife doesn't respect me anymore. Just yesterday I said "I want a sandwich" and instead of running over to make me one like she used to she said "Why don't you try saying please?". Can you believe that?!?! I mean, it's her place to make me sandwiches. It's her place to do the cleaning and the cooking. That's women's work right? She's trying to say that I should "chip in" around the house. That maybe I should start putting my underwear in the hamper, that maybe it's time for me to wake up and feed the baby. I just want to say "Listen, just because you have a job and I'm still trying to find one, doesn't mean that I need to start doing women's chores". Why should I put my underwear in the hamper? She's the one that does the laundry. Plus, I'm usually too drunk to put them away.
I just don't understand why women have stopped respecting men. Any ideas?
2006-06-20 11:18:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One more thing... WOMEN: If you're gonna tell me I'm stupid and that women deserve respect, can you at LEAST spell your answers right? Some of these are unreadable. Seriously.
2006-06-20 11:42:06 · update #1
Sounds like your woman doesn't realize how privileged she is to be with such a hot, sexy man like you! She is taking you for granted at this point in your marriage. You need to leave that lazy beeyatch and find yourself a sugar mama!
Now that I think about it, I bet she is having an affair. She is trying to push you away so that when the marriage dissolves, she can blame it all on you being a pig. Leave that sl*t calexico, get out while you still have your pride!
2006-06-20 14:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by HOT A$S 2 · 10⤊ 5⤋
Stop a moment and think back to the time when you first met you showered every day said sweet things all the time bought flowers regularly and other things as well Now it's get me a sandwich I'm too drunk The answer is in a word MAN UP Sober up think back to a time when you didn't look at life through whiskey googles I used to drink 7 days a week all it bought me was lonlness and a StrokeThink back to a time when you used to feel like Clark Gable because she smiled at you now now my days and evenings are spent looking for work _________________????? Be Grateful is part of the answer too you while you're reintroducing please into your vocabulary add Thank you you ask strangers for advice all you do is complain about their spelling If I had the blessing of a wife I'd pitch in i and a load of clothes and do the dishes now guess who does all this stuff a recovering drunk older &wiser and ALONE You have been given a great gift don't squander itThank the LORD you still have someone who cares enough to to struggle with you I can't even get a woman to have lunch with me
2014-02-14 07:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by steve P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when did guys like your asshole self, start saying that women dont respect men anymore, well for your not like the man back in the days, if you were you would have a job to support your family right, and men back then respected and love there wives like men dont do these either. Why cant you help with chores if you have no job. I bet your life with your wife be get a whole lot easrier if you made things easier on her. ANd if you wanted a sandwhich in my house i would have thrown the bread and the meat at you and tell you to make it yourself. If men understood women and our emtions then you would understand why we dont respect yall .G row a little feed your kid if you have to, if she works thats the least you can do for her is to get and feed the crying baby, but no like you sais you would rather a be a drunk, then treasure all those precious moments with your child. At least the child wont grow up hating its mother, it will grow hating its father, becuase he doesnt work, or try to, he is drunk, and dont repect his wife. If you want repect it has to be earned and given in order to recicve it. Guess what she will kick your sorry *** to the curb and move on to bigger and better things and she will get the respect that you lack to give her, besides no body wants to live with there dunken husband for 2 long anyway, so its matter of time and your out on your ***, good luck and best wishes, you need them
2006-06-20 11:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by prettygirl new orleans 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well excuse me but if you would show her some respect and ask her to please get you a drink she might respond better to you. DId your manners go out the window when you married? If that was my husband and he was demanding i would say the same thing she did or i would say get up and get it yourself buddy since you cant say please. Yes i sure can see why she told you that. You need to respect her too and she needs to respect you. Respect is a 2 way street. So you are an alcoholic huh??? Maybe you need AA or something like that. You should pick up after yourself once in a while out of common curtesy. You seem very controlling and mean and maybe that is why she is not showing you the respect you need. You should treat her the way you want to be treated. Dont be mean and disprespectful to her and expect love and respect in return. That is just not fair or right.
2006-06-20 13:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply because you men think you deserve it all. Women are not slaves. They do chores around the house but it still does not mean you men can take advantage of them. Besides, you aren't handicapped. Oh, and you should start putting your underwear in the hamper because I bet she can't stand that heavy odor anymore.
2006-06-20 11:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You've got to be kidding right? I don't even know where to begin to tell you what's wrong with your statement. You want a housekeeper not a wife.
2006-06-20 11:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by kirsty h 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Nope, sounds logical to me. Maybe she is coming down with something especially if she wants you to use a hamper. It is not in our training or contract as men. We are the rulers of our kingdoms and no broad is gonna tell us what to do. Right?
I do not believe this, no respect is just not tollerable.
2006-06-20 11:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by andyman 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha, that's funny, but seriously, honey, that's enough playing on the computer. Come back and make me a sandwich, *****!
2006-06-20 12:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa H 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some women respect some men. Just not you. Aw...too bad guess you had to make your own sandwich and put your own stinky underwear in the hamper.
My husband works full-time, cooks, cleans, takes care of the animals, does laundry and is a sex machine. Welcome to this century.
2006-06-20 11:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just when I thought I had read it all....LOL!! Man if your serious and your wife is willing to put up with you than y'all deserve each other..
Good Luck!!
2006-06-20 11:37:13 · answer #10 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋