i have FRIEND PROBLEMS can you help???

Question

i have a friend and she always puts people down to build herself up i dont agree with her at all she thinks she is the richest, shes not, she thinks she is smartest, and shes not, ive tried to talk to her but she blows me off......but at other times she is just kinda ok what should i do???

Answer 1

If she blows u off and doesn't want 2 listen 2 u most of the time then she's really not a good friend 2 be with. As 4 puttin' people down....... She probably as a reason 4 it. Maybe cause she's not loved at home or just is having som family issues. Ask her about it just so u know and u could find out why shes lik tat.

Answer 2

Start by distancing yourself. We can not change our friends. Although there may be some things that we like about them. Sometimes the bad things are "deal breakers" So when you and your friend are talking first try changing the subject. if that doesn't work say hay "gotta go". If your friend recognizes that you don't want to be around that, then she wont do that around you. And on second note, ask if she talks about you when you aren't around.

Answer 3

I was like that with my friends but not because I thought I was richer or stuff like that I was just a b*tch and did not like anyone but if she was a true friend she would blow you off and she is not a true friend

Answer 4

Hm...its not good to have friends who put others down. If she won't listen to you, then leave her. You deserve better friends than her and if you try talking to her again about it, if she continues to do it, stop being friends with her.

Answer 5

I think you should just b honest with the friend. Honesty is the best route.

Answer 6

Put her down so she can see what it's like