just wondering when me and my man get into it sometimes he just takes off walking or in the car and he doesnt get home until the am hrs i figure after the bars close. have caught him 2 times not wearing his wedding band. does that mean he is cheating or trying to pick a chic up? he has a habit of it always being strip clubs he runs to.
2006-06-20 11:09:58 · 13 answers · asked by ford_lovergirl_69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dump the loser, when people cheat or even try to cheat (sounds like he is) they now the pain and hurt that it would cause their wife or husband and yet they choose to go ahead and hurt them without regard. That is certainly not the definition of love. Move on no matter how hard it can be emotionally you will be the better person for it.
2006-06-21 04:33:39 · answer #1 · answered by abel g 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
What does it Mean? I think you know the answer to this question already! If my man did this just once he come home to a locked door and his clothes on the lawn! You teach others how to treat you and if this guy has done this more than once you are letting him get away with it. If he doesn't have to suffer consequences for his actions he is going to continue treating you disrespectfully! He's a coward, who runs whenever there's a fight he can't handle and taking off his wedding band is just one way of being unfaithful to you in his heart. He may not have cheated yet, but in his heart he is looking to. Strip clubs sure aren't the way to resove an issue, it only makes matters worse. You neeed to take a stand and the two of you need to learn how to resolve your problems in a civil manner, no yelling, name calling etc... At least he's not hitting you, tha't good, but it seems that his only way to cope with confrontation is to leave, which is sometimes,best, but to do what he is doing is wrong! He can take a walk to cool off and come back to fix things peacefully, but strip joints,and no wedding ring does Not solve anything !
2006-06-20 11:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by WildFire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW!!! Well I thought MY husband was a mommas boy! You have married yourself to a very immature mommas boy. The bible even says a man is to leave his parents and cleave to his wife. You can't live as a married couple and make a family if he only wants to be up under his momma forever. Is he still breastfeeding? Maybe thats why he is there all the time LOL. Sorry but for real, you will spend the rest of your marriage in competition with his mother if you don't put a stop to it now. I'm dealing with that now and its a no win situation. I definitely think you need to consider other options and look for a man who is more on your level.
2016-05-20 06:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your guesses are right on. When a man takes off his wedding ring the only reason is so women won't know that he is married. Any man that isn't man enough to stick around and work things out but instead has to run away and seek comfort from other women doesn't deserve you.
2006-06-20 11:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody is sneaking around. A man only takes his wedding band off when he is cheating or planning on cheating. When you two don't see eye to eye on things and he heads toward the door, you need to keep his butt at home and work it out instead of him walking away.
2006-06-20 11:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds very shady on his part.
I would not tollerate the no wedding band issue..
I think something must be up, why would he just happen to be at a bar and take it off if he was not looking for attention or more from women..
2006-06-20 11:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is bloated and he needed to take off his wedding band (hey, maybe that's why he was fighting with you to begin with).
maybe he keeps loosing his ring in a poker game and he keeps winning it back.
I've been married for years and usually don't wear my wedding band, it just doesn't fit anymore and i don't really like jewelry.
your man is probably trying to cheat. God only knows if he has succeeded, i would guess no or he would be acting different than you described.
2006-06-20 11:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot speak for your husband but I can say that how we as women react to our husbands makes all the difference in the world. I know that it is especially difficult if you have a husband that is always looking somewhere it else. it is belittling and personally degrading to women. We have to focus on being the best spouse we can be inspite of what our husbands are doing. When a wife doesn't support her husband he will go somewhere else.
We as women have to protect ourselves from the norm of depending on our husbands for fullfillment in our lives. There is only One that can truly fulfill us and that is a relationship with Jesus Christ. I know you are going to say "dont get on that religion stuff" but please hear me out. Within every man and women is a God created void that He alone can fill. Men try to fill thier void with women and money and cars and women with clothes houses ect. The reality is there is only one that can fill this void and is Jesus Christ and He sent me here to share with you it is not about your hubby loving you like you want him to it is truly about a Saviour that completes you.
http://www.biblebelievers.com/SimpleSalvation.html
2006-06-20 14:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say if my wife looked like you i would stay home and take care of your needs.
2006-06-20 11:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by busguy711 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello!!
it seems you already know the answer to your question!
if in dout, yes is the answer.
why take off your wedding ring if your not trying to hide something.
2006-06-20 11:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by ms.right, first name always! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋