i love my boyfriend very much and he loves me and he says that he trust me but he always gets very mad when i tell him that i talked to one of my male friend and i always tell that we are just friends and nothing else but that still makes him very mad so help me
2006-06-20 10:51:51 · 16 answers · asked by JayQueBee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love your boyfriend, then you shouldn't need other men in your life. Other male friends lead to cheating because most guys can't be friends with a woman without wanting to take her to bed. Drop your boyfriend or drop your friends. If you truly love him, you really have no need for other guy friends. He should be enough. It's nice that you tell him, but you don't need guy firends. If you BF isn't enough to make you happy, then drop him. He isn't the one for you. Find another. There's over three billion of us, there must be one out there for you to make you forget your guy friends.
2006-06-20 10:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by spudric13 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you can't change the inferiority complex of some people. Your boyfriend is insecure because you are probably "too hot" for him or you naturally attract many other men. You can change your behavior by insuring that he is your #1 all of the time and make sure that any other man knows it. Hold your BF in the highest esteem when discussing him with others and never be disrespectful of his feelings in front of others.
2006-06-20 10:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by TonOBricks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slight jealousy is OK, but if he becomes really upset you need to find a new boyfriend! Reassure him that you only have eyes for him and your guy friends are only FRIENDS. Men cant understand being "just" friends, even the ones you thing are your friends probably would make a move if given the chance!
2006-06-20 10:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by MandaSue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually guys like that are still in their "your all mine and not gonna share you phase". This is cute for about a week and afterwards gets straight annoying. If a guy is upset because you are just "talking" to a guy, he isnt worth your time, eventually he will become overbearing, obsessive, and over controlling of you and your relationship with him, which isnt healthy.
My suggestion to fix the issue would be to tell him flat out to deal with it and grow up. Real men arent insecure over that issue and realize that they have their womans love totally and undying trust.
Sounds like to me, he needs to grow up a bit.
2006-06-20 10:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Vampress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he is lying and does not trust you. You should be able to talk to whom ever you want, with out his permission or approval. If there is no trust in a relationship then it is not very strong. You should tell him to either start acting like he trusts you or you are going to find some one who does.......
2006-06-20 10:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a talk with him. It is unfair for him to tell you that you can't talk to your friends just because they are guys. He is being over protective and that is not fair to you.
If he doesn't lighten up then you really need to reconsider him. My ex was like that and he wouldn't lighten up. You need to think about this very hard and talk to him. If he gets mad that is his problem, he's just doing himself harm. It's not your fault.
Good luck.
2006-06-20 10:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think if you can live the rest of your life with never talking to another guy. If no Dump him. It starts off like that it came to a point with my x where I could not even call my fam on x-mas. Please put your foot down. Trust me its not fun no matter how hard you try. Good luck.
2006-06-20 10:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nice girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well actually you cant really do anything, you cant change a guy. i actually got out of a relationship like that my self and were not going out anymore and he is still like that and were not even dating. so all i can say is tell him how you feel about this and try and work things out i guess. just dont let him talk down to you or disrespect you. mine did and thats why i ended it.
2006-06-20 10:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by RKV6619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his tail and move on to someone who can trust. That's not love. It's called co-dependency, and that's a very bad thing.
2006-06-20 10:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by eliasulmonte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dah when guys act insecure its either because there cheating on you and thinks you might do the same. If you go to the store he 'll time you and so on. you need to tell him to chill out just because ur cheating doesn't mean i am.
2006-06-20 10:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by sexysash69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋