My ex and I have been broken up for about a month, we were together 2.5 years before that. I still have feelings for him, I love him with all my heart, and honestly believe he's my soulmate. we seperated on good terms, well, as good as you can get after being together that long, and we still talk over the phone and the internet. I'm still hurting immensly, and we're going to have dinner tonight, and see each other face to face for the first time since we broke up. I'm very nervous, and I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing. Should i still go? should i try and hide the fact that I'm dying inside because we're not together anymore? I'm so confused, my head is spinning, I've got a stomach ache and I'm nervous on top of that. any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.
2006-06-20 10:51:14 · 8 answers · asked by dancinchicka04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go and enjoy his company tell him how u feel and u might be surprised at his response goodluck
2006-06-20 10:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love him then be honest with him. tell him that you want to be together and go over why you broke up. if you are honest with him and he still doesn't want to be with you romantically you need to make a clear cut. no more talking or seeing each other because it is just too easy to fall into a destructive cycle. you can not become this broken relationship. we sometimes confuse being comfortable for being in love with someone. also there obviously was a reason you broke up and unless those reasons have been resolved then i doubt you will be able to be together again.
2006-06-20 10:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must still be some glimmer of hope between you two. Why else would you be going to dinner together? I wouldnt go unless you feel like you might be getting back together. Thats just stupid, he probably wants sex.
2006-06-20 10:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT NOW ,I FEEL 4 YOU CAUSE I NO HOW IT CAN URT TO B IN LOVE AND NOT HAVE THAT PERSON 2 LOVE YOU THE SAME OR B WITH YOU...IF HE STILL TALKS TO YOU & WANTS TO TAKE U OUT,HE MUST MISS YOU AND CARE ,BUT DONT GIVE IN TO EASY SOMETIMES THEY JUST MISS HAVING SEX WITH YOU ,OR HE PROBABLY HAVENT GOT ANY SENCE THEN ITS THE TRUTH SO WAIT.....TELL HIM YOU STILL CARE BUT IF HE'S NOT INTERESTED I YOU TOO '''TO TELL YOU SO U DONT WASTE UR TIME THINKING OF HIM,ITS HARD BUT IF U WANT ,JUST DATE IN TIME THAT LOVE WILL FADE AWAY YOULL ALWAYS REMEMBER BUT IT WILL GO AWAY SLOWLY BUT SHORLY..ITS ALL UP TO YOU,
2006-06-20 10:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
defintley go mayb he'll tell u he still has feeling for u and he wants to try it again just go and if it gets bad leave
2006-06-20 10:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take a deep breath...Everything is alright...Start by saying to yorself....I am a person....a human being...a careing human being..Then breathe....in 1000....out 1000....in.....out....Ok now just think about what it is you wish to accomplish. Are you still in love?? DDo you wish to be friends...Make a plan, and stick to it!!! I hope all the best for you!! Lonnie
2006-06-20 10:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ignore your feelings, they're there for a reason... try to relax, and go see him...see what happens... if you don't go, you might regret it...keep your expectations low..
2006-06-20 10:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rodney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run.............
2006-06-20 10:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by BECKER 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋