This is for the women?

Question

Do any of you like bondage or whipping or anything like that? If you do, why? Does your man ever try to force you to do it?


No, I am not talking about myself.

Answer 1

I like simple things when tied up and blindfolded: a touch here, a bite there, a pinch on yet another random place. It´s the helplessness and the uncertainty of what is to come next, that does it for me.

Pain is not really my thing, but I like spankings and nipple clamps once in a while. My boyfriend does not force me, we both like it as it is. We talk a lot and change roles depending on the mood, we´re in.

Answer 2

Any sort of bondage type relationship should never be forced, it is a very common fantasy, and much more widely acceptable as a sexual norm, however if someone ever tries to force you to do this and you don't want to... or if they succeed in forcing and you do not want to it is a case of sexual assault or sexual abuse. You have the right to say no! And if he continues to do it against your will, LOSE HIM, and then get yourself some counseling so that you can have healthy sexual relationships in the future.
And yes, I do occasionally enjoy such encounters. When they are mutually agreed upon.

Answer 3

I am like Sue C, I love to be tied up, a little spanking and nipple clamps when you are aroused are fantastic, but no real pain. And I only like bedroom bondage, the kind where I am not totally nude, but have a garter belt and stockings on and I love my hands tied behind my back. Handcuffs are a turn on but hurt after a while. Men's old silk neckties are perfect, and so are leather belts for the legs.

Answer 4

No my man never tries to force anything on me, he knows better, but I do enjoy being tied up and made love to. I like lingerie bondage where I wear some lingerie and stockings with a garter belt. It is more like role playing.

Totally nude bondage scares me, and makes it too much like B & D, I do like spanking, my arms and legs tied, and even being gagged, but I feel safe with my stockings on. Nude I would feel vulnerable. and kind of dirty. I find that when we make love while I ame tied up like that, that the orgasams are way more intense.

Answer 5

Never forces me to do it, and I think that would be when I stopped liking it. But I do enjoy it, I am not sure why, just a fantasy roll playing game kind of thing, the same reasons anyone has for playing games in bed. But the first time someone tried against my will well hell that is rape. You would have to do these things with someone you were pretty comfortable with as well.

Answer 6

I would never give someone control over me. As far as whipping I left that a long time ago at my father's house at 5 yrs. old didn't like it then don't plan on a repeat performance from some wacko.

Answer 7

I like being tied up or tied down-whichever saying is right. I like it b/c it allows me to give up complete control. I also like to be blindfolded b/c then I have given up control AND I can't see what is about to happen. THAT really heightens the experience-all of your nerves are alive.
And, no-no one has ever forced me to do it.

Answer 8

Not into pain, but bondage can be fun.

Answer 9

i love to be restrained and dominated. i am a control freak in every other aspect of life, i think that's my reason why. spanking is nice also.

you can't force the willing.

Answer 10

No, I do not believe that women should subject themselves to that kind of thing. Sex should be beautiful, not painful or anything like that.