me and my wife just broke up, eye thout we would always be together
2006-06-20 10:21:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah i know how you feel
just pray
i got a saying for you...
"does anyone know a doctor who can crack my ribs and fix my broken heart?'
i used to use that saying all the time because i was so depressed
everything happens for a reason
i know that is very hard to accept but it's true
everything will turn out good in the end
god doesn't give us anything that he knows we can't handel
just believe in yourself and remember that everything will be ok
always remember who you are
never lose yourself in dark and hard times
or it will just get harder to pull yourself out of it
just remember that you got us
all of us
the whole world to talk to
i'm here for you
the whole world is here for you
i hope that i helped you
talk to us anytime you need help
may god always watch over you and keep you safe
i'll pray for you
love,
Angelica
2006-06-20 10:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by lil_bit_a_evrythang 3 · 9⤊ 1⤋
Its not necessarily over. I know from experience, that it feels over and your hurting in the worst way. Just take it one day at time for now. Try and stay busy. Don't isolate yourself. Do things with your friends, and never let your mind wonder about things that will just drive your crazy. Sometimes, when things get really bad in a marriage, stepping away from the situation, can help. It gives you both time to see that things are not as bad as you think and it helps you to understand that there is worse problem out in the real world. Continue to live your life, don't put anything on hold. If things don't work out, at least you will be mentally prepare to deal with this by continuing to move ahead. Have faith and pray to God for strength. God and time will see you all the way thru this.
2006-06-20 23:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to these kinda of things time is your best friend. The best thing to do is to find things to keep you occupied. Find new hobbies or just go out with the guys and try to have a good time and forget about the situation for a while. I know how you feel because I have been there myself. This is not a easy going process. It could take a few days,few weeks, or even a few months. Just stay busy.
2006-06-20 17:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by crystal and tommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly cry/ mope around for 10 minutes and then realise that it isnt the end of the world...it will feel like it is but it isn't. Time will heal the wound up...channel your energy into something creative maybe, take up a new hobby or interest, that way u distract yourself and learn a new skill. Along the way, u'll meet new people that will build your confidence up and maybe allow you to see things in a different light.
2006-06-20 17:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals...
but in the mean time, you may want to be strong and objective why things happen the way they are... if you guys didn't broke up, you'd feel worst having a wife who is unresponsive and it'll just frustrate you and make things between you worst.
It's more frustrating to keep someone you love, who doesn't love you back. You may feel somewhat secure to have that person physically around, but you don't have her emotionally. It's no use...so it is better to break up when relationships don't work anymore and that it would only lead to worst scenarios.
Keep yourself busy and redirect your life to something better.
2006-06-20 17:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a broken heart cannot be repaired. But, you learn from mistakes and you gain wisdom from heartaches. Try to keep yourself as busy as possible (church, community activities, etc.). Time will help you get over the situation, and by staying busy, you are bound to meet new people.
2006-06-20 17:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by jennymustafa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes lots of time. I know how you feel. My husband passed away 2 years ago and I don't think that enough time in the world is going to repair my broken heart.
2006-06-20 17:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by dkcrouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens.
Get busy doing things. Spend time with your friends, indulge in your hobbies or find new ones. Take on new projects at work. Fill your time and your mind with other things. One day, you'll be driving home from work and realize you haven't thought about her all day.
It's hard, but it gets easier as time goes on. It starts getting easier sooner if you force yourself outside your sadness and rejoin the world.
Good luck. Keep your chin up.
2006-06-20 17:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch my friend, i always worry about these thing, but never gave my self the chance with anyone to experience it in the first place, but i think after time, youll heal. After how long? thats on how strong you heart is and to tolerate it i guess
would u choose this a best answer??
2006-06-20 17:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals a broken heart. Take your time, get yourself involved in other activities and don't become a sea of self pity.
2006-06-20 17:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋