i've been dealing with a girl since december of last yearon a constant basis, i've meet her parents, i've meet her brother everyone likes me and respects me. we've been having sex on a regular basis, when people see us together they make a comment that were togehter. for example we're at her dads house and he
ll be like where your girl go, she'll her that and get upset and be like that's my friend, the comment doesn't bother me everyone revers to us as a couple but she's so quick to say that's my friend i;m woundering if i'm wasting my time waiting for more.
2006-06-20 10:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by K-Def 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Sounds to me that she likes you and wants you around but isn't quite sure that she wants to keep you around. Maybe she wants to keep her options open or she is just unsure for whatever reason. The best advice I can give is to not be too clingy, needy or whatever. Be there for her, but don't jump at every opportunity she gives you. I know you want to be with her as much as possible and apparently she wants the same. Sounds like a classic case of codependency - give both of yourselves some breathing room. Get out on your own - do your own thing, find yourself and give her the opportunity to do the same.
You can't do anything to change her feelings, but it is a good way to find out what the deal is. Good luck to ya.
2006-06-20 10:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lenore 3 · 17⤊ 4⤋
You know, a lot of girls have been told over and over that to assume your current beau and you are dating is a big no-no.
A lot of men aren't as cool and calm about commitment as you are. Why not talk to your girl about it and see exactly where you stand? Tell her you want more. If she's not up for it she'll tell you or stall and you can take it from there!
2006-06-20 17:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Wowzer-Bowzer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's a little immature. One if you're sleeping together I would hope you were a couple. Two you usually only meet the others parents if you are a couple.
Let her go she's got problems.
2006-06-21 14:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, 2 points!
2006-06-20 17:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has issues about taking this relationship to the next level.
2006-06-20 17:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking works wonders.Put out on the table what you are expecting,ask her to do the same.maybe its because you havent asked her yet.To go out..Ya never know.good luck
2006-06-20 17:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by kim k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's 2 embarest 2 say that u n her is a couple
2006-06-20 17:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by CrAzYcHiC123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players get played.
2006-06-20 17:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means your not the only man in her life.
To say that you are messes her up with the other guy.
Dump her.
2006-06-20 17:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me to
2006-06-20 17:21:42 · answer #10 · answered by starie9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋