Me and my live in gf of over 6 years got in a fight in march fight was over work (we work togther). She left with some of her stuff i did not stop her.She moved in with her gf from work (we all work togther).At first we talk on the phone everyday and text mess each other everyday telling one another i love you i miss you.She then stared working a second job on the other side of town were she was staying.We were still talking then i stop calling for a couple of days she would be the one to call.One night she called and ask why i dont l call her anymore i said cause she wasnt coming bye to see me after she get off at second job on the nights i was off.Her replie was i never ask i shouldnt have to ask was my replie.That eveing was so time in late April we stop talking even at work for over 2 weeks.When we did talk i ***** her out for leaving. I then tryed to send flowers and love letters but she said it was to late.She came and got most of her stuff 2 weeks ago.She got a storage.
2006-06-20 10:09:29 · 2 answers · asked by Sonny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OK, "marry her if you truly love her"?? What the **** is that? That's not an answer? The girl obviously doesn't want to be with him anymore, so how is he supposed to marry someone who isn't with him anymore? Jees, some people's kids, I swear!
My advice is to throw in the towel. If you read one of my questions, it's not the same...but it's the same concept! You are in love with her and she has given up on your love, correct? I.E.-the coming and getting of all of her things brings the closure to the relationship-she has given up on the relationship. I know it will be super hard...I've been there...it was even harder coz my kids were involved. There will be a lot of decisions in your life that you WON'T want to make...but you realize that you have to! Like this one...she's not coming back. It's possible...in the future, when she realizes how stupid she was being...but as of right now and probably the next few months at least...she's moved on...you should try to, as well. If you need to talk to someone about this, contact me! I will try to help you through this...I've been through TWO extremely hard break-ups. good luck!
2006-06-20 11:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by Audra K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MARRY HER IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER!
2006-06-20 17:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by SuzzyLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋