ok the other day my moms boy friend picked me up from work and he said he couldent recognize me because i looked kind of sexy.......... im only 17 hes like 38 or older would you take it like nothing or is it wrong
2006-06-20 10:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds awfully WRONG to me, but then I wasn't there to hear HOW he said it. I think it was inappropriate any way!
2006-06-20 10:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how he meant it, it was not an appropriate thing to say to you. Sounds to me like he was feeling you out to see if you were interested in him. I could be wrong, but if you pay attention, see if hes looking at you alot, and they way he looks at you, you can tell if someone wants you. If he does something else, say someting or look at you weird, I would tell your mom. If she doesnt beleive you or gets mad, do what it takes to make her believe you. Also tell him not to talk to you like that. Stand up for yourself with him. Keep him in his place.
2006-06-20 17:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take it as a compliment and see him as saying I look nice and older but it all depends on how he said it maybe you should tell your mom or somebody else.
2006-06-20 17:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's wrong! the mere fact that it doesn't make you feel good about him means something.
You do have to recall if he said it maliciously or not. If he was just jokingly flattering you to make you feel comfortable with him, then he didn't intend to make you feel uneasy.
You get my point? If he did it maliciously, then it is wrong. It's all about intentions.
2006-06-20 17:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is weird so do not worry unless he pursues it with any sexual advances! he may have just been complementing you just because he is nice but then again this is unbecoming of a older man!
2006-06-20 17:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Let your mom know what he said, & try not to be alone with him.
2006-06-20 17:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by silver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like ur moms type of guys then dont take it personal if u dont ur moms type then tell ur mom her b-friend hit on u if she dont care thn thats ****** up
2006-06-20 17:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um it sounds wrong to me. i would tell your mom what he said. it does not sound right that he said t hat. i would try to stay away from him.
2006-06-20 17:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by jacksonvill_high 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom so she can kick his AzZ
2006-06-20 17:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Justine G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋