My fiance and I are engaged to get married next year and I am 6 months pregnant with his baby. Since being pregnant, he sneaks behind my back and looks at porn after I go to bed at night. I confronted him about it, and he denied it at first, but now says he thought I wouldn't get mad. And aother excuse he used was he though I'd be to tired to have sex, which I am not too tired! Should I be mad or am I overeacting? I feel betrayed for some reason.
2006-06-20 10:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by Huliganjetta 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All men look at porn, it's just a fact of life you need to accept. It does not mean that he finds you unattractive or inadaquate in any way. It's the same thing with masterbation. you can't stop them from doing it so you just have to let it go.
2006-06-20 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Trey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i could experience betrayed! He replace into get a sturdy whoopin! My husband and that i communicate approximately this each and all of the time! He does not look at porn and he additionally understand that with the aid of fact i'm 9 weeks pregnant i'm no longer that attracted to intercourse as much as i used to! I do attempt and do different issues for him, hand pastime, ******** (yet that an vast sort of the time makes me gag!), so he does get some what of a launch! And on the days the place i don't experience so ill, we've intercourse! yet i could experience completely disenchanted and betrayed! you may nicely be over reacting a tad, (it truly is not sturdy for the toddler!) yet you ought to have a serious communicate with him! Porn is disgusting and addictive! men replace into slaves to it, and it ruins marriages and different halves and infants loose have confidence of their husbands and fathers! sturdy success!
2016-10-31 05:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by hartzell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,
1.) a guy just doesnt do something for no reason. do you tell him no alot?
2.) he is a guy, if you get mad at him it is only going to push him away and resent you either sexually and or personally.
We do look at porn, and to all these women who say be mad at him, you girls got a few things to learn. You cannot just mold a man into something you want. sure there are some who you can, but those guys have no sack....
2006-06-20 10:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by Heathen Atheist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't attack him but do talk to him, tell him how you feel (hurt, betrayed) and ask him if he could stop doing it (on account of your feelings) whether you are hormonal or not he should still listen to what you have to say and try to do something to make you feel better.
I also would check to see if after you give birth he still does it, he may have an addiction and may need professional help.
2006-06-20 10:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next thing you know,he be going out and coming home late.Thats where the drama begins.You see ,honey its up to you to make the first move.You do something about it.B-4 its too late.
But if he truly loves you, then tell him you should realy need to talk it out openly, like a normal couple.
Good Luck honey !!
2006-06-20 10:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by pasifika born n raised 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely be angry. He has no right to assume anything. Many pregnant women are at their horniest during this time. You should let him know how it makes you feel and that you have plenty for him to look at. Continue to entice him throughout the pregnancy by inviting him to explore your new curves. Don't stay mad long; it's time to get busy.
2006-06-20 10:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by toosexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, I would be mad. I would also tell him that you get upset when he looks at it and see if he stops looking at it and only looks at you. It I had a fiance that did that, I would feel like I wasn't good enough for him. But thats just me.
2006-06-20 10:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he aint stickin another girl, be thankful and shut up. Porn is what it is, a way to get off.
2006-06-20 10:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all men look at porn as long as your not around what do care. would you rather him be out at the club to 3 a.m. at least he's home
2006-06-20 10:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just let him he will do it enny way
2006-06-20 10:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by srb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋