My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 months. I really really like, he makes me laugh, and I'm so happy with him, he doesn't smoke or drink and he's an athlete. I love him so much and I want him to know how i really real about him. The question is how do I tell him? PLEASE HELP!
2006-06-20 09:57:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
jsut tell him! I know it may seem awkward, but guys love to hear what you love about them, I wrote my boyfriend - now husband- a list of all the things that I loved about him when we were dating, and he still has it! :) and the list was soooo long. Or you can find a more creative way to tell him. I'm sure he will be so happy, and tell you that he loves everything about you too! :)
2006-06-20 10:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's a healthy open relationship your best bet is to open the lines of communication and just tell him! If he's the wonderful guy that you're saying he is than he'll be open to hearing what you have to say plus probably really enthused to hear it. Don't go overboard obsessive with him because guys sometimes freak if they think they're getting pushed into too much of a commitment but a simple "I love ya" shouldn't cause any harm! Good luck! It sure is difficult to tell the one ya love how ya feel. Humans are so terrified of rejection that it's near impossible sometimes.
2006-06-20 17:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by lynzi_n_bridges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Sex is NOT the way to do it though. That's how you end up a single teenage mom. Talk to him honestly and openly. 3 mos is a little soon to be "in love". I don't doubt that you lve him, i just would be willing to bet you don't know him well enough to make that kind of decision yet. Good luck
2006-06-20 17:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by seven2ndstofire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advise is dont tell him, let him be the one who tells you first, and shows you how much he loves you. Men are men no matter how nice and sweet they seem, the more you show them, the less interested they become, it is just in there system to react this way. So be yourself, be nice ONLY as a response to HIS showings first. If you want to keep him long, play intelligently.
2006-06-20 17:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Erzla777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that you SHOULD NOT DO is have sex with him..TRUST ME! Idk if u have yet..But if not then dont do it..I know some friends who already gave it up to there bfs and they get treated like ****..I Still havent done that with my bf and we have been going out for 1 year and 7 months! So just take him out to dinner..or even better make him dinner..U know how they say..the way to a guys heart is his stomach
2006-06-20 17:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by naeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is pray to god tonight and ask him, "Is this the guy for me, if it is will you please tell me?" then you wait and pay attention god has his ways on informing you about things, all you need to do is keep a look out and see what he says.
2006-06-20 17:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can really do is pray to god tonight and ask him, "Is this the guy for me, if it is will you please tell me?" then you wait and pay attention god has his ways on informing you about things, all you need to do is keep a look out and see what he says.
2006-06-20 17:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Dont listento the guy who said to give him a ********, he must be a dork! You just need to tell him straight out thats all.
2006-06-27 16:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by angie n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are already his girlfriend, so he knows that you have feelings for him. Let him know when you appreciate something, such as when he declines drugs or cigarettes. Give him little gifts and show your affection often.
2006-06-20 17:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him and tell him what you feel, after all he can't read your mind. If it were the another way around wouldn't you like to know.GOOD LUCK!!!!! HONESTY IS THE KEY WORD.
2006-06-20 17:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋